IAAL...re: response

IAAL...First let me just tell you a litle about this situation. My mother took my child giving me NO choice...after having spent several years incarcerated with no vististion and the lies of my mother telling me that my parental rights where termimated...I then return to society a responsable person, attempting to put my life back together. This time is in the excess of 10 years. The lies,deceat etc. Then one day almost two years of being free a Sherriff knocks on my door and hands me 5 lbs. of paperwork. ( late might I add ) telling me I owe 21,770$ of money that my mother received because she CHOSE to take my child and raise it as her own. All the time knowing where I was to ask me for assistance etc. The DSS knew my where abouts and NEVER ONCE sent me ANYTHING stating my mother was receiving money. My mother received the wopping amount of 99$ a month the lowest possible in this state. Which means two things to me, one: she made to much money to get any more then that and two: she didn't need the money. Then my child was placed in a court ordered placement facility without my knowledge, ( being his parent ) and now I am asked by the state to reimburse them for money they have expended to my mother and for this placement he is currently in? My mother is also receiving at her resisdence a 500$ SSI check for my son, who is not even in her physical care, and hasn't been for the past two years, yet she still receives this check. I was informed by the DA that the SSI money she is receiving should be given to the placement he is currently residing for his care and the payment of the place. It is not that I am trying to get "out" of anything as I can clearly sense you think is the case....but how can I be responsible for a debt that I did not know was being made and when I received this assistance? When during this time I was incarcerated.
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by sha_rae:
[b]IAAL...First let me just tell you a litle about this situation. My mother took my child giving me NO choice...after having spent several years incarcerated with no vististion and the lies of my mother telling me that my parental rights where termimated...I then return to society a responsable person, attempting to put my life back together. This time is in the excess of 10 years. The lies,deceat etc. Then one day almost two years of being free a Sherriff knocks on my door and hands me 5 lbs. of paperwork. ( late might I add ) telling me I owe 21,770$ of money that my mother received because she CHOSE to take my child and raise it as her own. All the time knowing where I was to ask me for assistance etc. The DSS knew my where abouts and NEVER ONCE sent me ANYTHING stating my mother was receiving money. My mother received the wopping amount of 99$ a month the lowest possible in this state. Which means two things to me, one: she made to much money to get any more then that and two: she didn't need the money. Then my child was placed in a court ordered placement facility without my knowledge, ( being his parent ) and now I am asked by the state to reimburse them for money they have expended to my mother and for this placement he is currently in? My mother is also receiving at her resisdence a 500$ SSI check for my son, who is not even in her physical care, and hasn't been for the past two years, yet she still receives this check. I was informed by the DA that the SSI money she is receiving should be given to the placement he is currently residing for his care and the payment of the place. It is not that I am trying to get "out" of anything as I can clearly sense you think is the case....but how can I be responsible for a debt that I did not know was being made and when I received this assistance? When during this time I was incarcerated.
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My response:

I read your other post. I know exactly what you said, and have said. You are apparently not rehabilitated. You are still blaming others for your own misgivings and misdeeds in life.

Since you decided to commit a crime, what did you think the authorities were going to do with your child? Family was the best choice. But, you don't see that and are blaming your mother, and everyone else. Look at it this way, if you were a law abiding citizen, and didn't go to prison, would any of this have happened? Would I be paying MY tax dollars for YOUR child?

Remember, it was YOU that decided to be a felon, a criminal, a person unfit to take care of a child, and unfit to live in society by societies rules and laws. No one decided that for you, other than you.

Your mother is not the "bad" person here. Once you come to grips with that "reality" then, and only then, will you begin to understand, and your own healing process will then have begun. It should have begun a long time ago.

People will be judging you for the rest of your life because you're a felon, and they have every right to do so. Your sentence may be over behind bars, but it will never be over while you're in society. That's the hard truth.

Like I said, I'm not very thrilled to have given you the answer to one of your many problems. But, justice and fairness are crying out, and you got very lucky in this instance.

I do not care to discuss these points, or the answer I gave you, any further. I will merely turn my back on you, along with the rest of society.

I gave you the answer. If you don't understand it, or don't like it, I can't help that. "Laches" is the key word. See an attorney.

Instead of whining, why don't you just say "thank you" for the help, both for the answer to your problem, and also for the TAXPAYER money you caused ME to spend on YOUR child.

IAAL


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