
07-07-2000, 03:38 PM
| | | I REALLY NEED ANY INFORMATION OR ADVISE YOU CAN GIVE ME RELATED TO: CONTACT DURING VISITATION..
THANKS | 
07-07-2000, 03:45 PM
| | | What kind of contact during visitation. Could you explain a little more? | 
07-07-2000, 03:45 PM
| | | I don't know the legal situation but if it were my kid I'd be going. Visitation doesn't say that you can't not see your child. It's a medical emergency so therefore I would go. If there was a medical emergency, and you still some how got in trouble, let's say your ex filed something on you. He would look like the crappy person because you were just trying to get your child medicine. I'd make the medicine. He doesn't have a phone, legally your supposed to have a way to contact him. | 
07-07-2000, 03:49 PM
| | | THANKS FOR THE ADVISE. I HONESTLY DON'T FEEL THAT HE (OR HIS FAMILY) ARE CAPEABLE OF DEALING WITH THE BURN. THE ONLY REASON THEY TOOK HER TO THE ER IN THE FIRST PLACE IS BECAUSE I HADN'T (IT REALLY ISN'T THAT BAD) THIS WAY THEY CAN GET ME FOR NOT PROVIDING MEDICAL ATTENTION. | 
07-07-2000, 03:53 PM
| | | BY letting the father handle the situation as far as the emergency room situation, and not showing up, I think you're better off.
[i]Why would you think she won't get her medicine? He was concerned enough to take her to the hospital, right?[/i] neither of you want the problem of being accused of burning the baby, and letting them take care of the dressing of the wound while in his care will not do any harm. On the other hand, showing up is going to start a feud, and by letting things be, you "allow" him to be the dad. Accusations of harrassment, and stalking, at worst, depends on your ex-, may be your reward. Don't be too worried about it. Kids have accidents, and sometimes parents press for complaints through the system because of accidents. allow him to have the too short time to share the baby. Showing up, in your eyes may be a good idea, but may cause problems. | 
07-07-2000, 03:56 PM
| | | He's not going to [b]get[/b] you for anything. He did alright taking her, you were the judge of the burn while she was in your care, Relax, please.... | 
07-07-2000, 04:19 PM
| | | YOU HAVE A VERY GOOD POINT. THANK YOU FOR YOUR INPUT. WHAT DO YOU SUGGEST I DO ABOUT CHECKING ON HER. IT DOESN'T SEEM LIKE A LONG TIME, BUT SINCE THEY DON'T HAVE A PHONE HOW CAN I AT LEAST SEE HOW SHE IS DOING? | 
07-07-2000, 07:14 PM
| | | Wait until she returns., As IAAL wrote, and as sitting in a courtroom on the same issue, I can tell you you're only going to light a fire if you 'tell him that you're going to make note' of this, and continue to push the issue. If you file a Motion for him to show cause, this case is going to put in the "trivial Pursuit" pile in the clerks office.
Dad did have the right to seek treatment, you did learn of the treatment "asap" and it is behind you.
Question: Would you have told HIM, although you are not required to in the decree??
No one should be forced to comply with a decree- To the Letter- situations arise that are not forseeable in [b]EVERY[/b] case,
And you would be better off looking at IAAL's response, Over, and Over, until you understand it fully. RELAX!!!! | |
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