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Saggii
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Need some advice, here's some background..been divorced for 4 yrs and have had joint custody ever since I got a divorce. Two years ago I remarried and my Ex took me to court, she wanted full custody and wanted to give me one day a week visitation. I didn't want to change the parenting schedule we had and wanted everything to stay the same. She has a bipolar disorder, during mediation it was recomended a parents completion of a pshychological test hich would have resulted in a recommendation for a childsharing plan. She refused the recommendation by the court and dropped the case. Everything was working ok ever since with some favors she would ask to keep our daugther for special events. I've never denied any favor she's asked and now out of no where she said she needs more time, that having our daugther 4 days a week is not enough and she want's her on a weekend day leaving me with only two days. I don't want to give us what little time I have with my daughter but it looks like she will take me again for a second time to court. Does she have any grounds to win a case just because my Ex feels lonely now that she broke up with her boyfriend? Will I have to pay for her lawyers fees? She used to have a good paying job and quit her job to get a minimum wage job because of religious beliefs. I'm married to a wonderful woman and have two children now, my daughter and baby boy. I really don't want to change or brake the good relationship we have and would do anything to not go to court but when she wants full custody, I just can't sit and do nothing. I don't want to play her game and ask for full custody because I know my daughter love her mother but don't know if I should let her know that I'm willing to fight hard this time. I'm in the State of California