js94

My daughter has chronic asthma and is under going surgery because of her adnoids and tonsils are enlarged and the adnoids are restricting her breathing through her nose. Also, she will stop breathing at night. Her father still hasn't paid any support since we went to court. Plus, still no medical payments either. He owns a business and I know he is making money and does have the money to pay are he wouldn't be operating. He sells original and reprint pictures. He is Very well liked in the community. I don't know why he has nothing to do with his daughter. He has seen her cry for him and just hides in a car until we are gone. I really hate him for hurting her. Don't dead beat dads know how much they hurt their children and why would they want to hurt them? I don't understand? I mean not only financially but emotionally too. Well, my daughter is my first priority and I love her. I need help but know one will help me? They say I make too much money but they don't realize how much I spend on medical bills. Plus, I miss work when she is ill. Then still have to pay the baby sitter, plus the doctor's bills on lost income. I Don't understand the system. Plus, it has now been 5 months since I have received support payments and years without medical payments. One payment of 100.00 was paid for medical of October 1999. So, what can I do?

[This message has been edited by rs1961 (edited June 23, 2000).]

[This message has been edited by rs1961 (edited June 23, 2000).]