he is legally divorced. and it is his ex wife that has filed a modification against him , saying that he has violated an order (to not have any opposite sex visitors in the house hold after 10 pm on the nights he has his son) we HAVE NOT violated this order!!! i go elsewhere on the nights he has him and then come home in the morning. this woman just doesnt want him to go on with his life. she got pregnant while they were still married and living together, and then left him. (by another man) she doesnt like the fact that her son likes me, and by the way this is the 2nd time she has taken him back to court , he had another girlfriend and she took him back as soon as she found out about her and had his visits modified... now shw wants all his visitation taken away except every other weekend from morning til 830 pm. we have done nothing wrong except fall in love and be together ( if you can consider that as wrong) i have an excellent background, i have raised two wonderful respectful children of my own. <BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by figittts:
is living together in the state of virginia an immoral thing in the eyes of the courts? can a judge use this against my boyfriend when it comes to filing a custody modification?<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>