MILITARY SEARCH

HOW CAN I FIND A NON-CUSTODIAL NON-CHILD SUPPORT PAYING MILITARY MEMBER THE STATE SEEMS AS THOUGH THEY CAN'T LOCATE HIM. I HAVE GIVEN SSN-DOB-FULL NAME AND DUTY STATION WHATS GOING ON

contact the branch of service your spouse has enlisted in. st. louis, mo also maintains records on military members. if you know where he is stationed, contact his commanding officer or the 1st Sgt at that duty station.

Thanks help 4 u, been there and done that what exactly are the Commanding officer or 1st Sgt suppose to do. The first time i contacted them they gave him leave and told him to come back state side and resolve the matter which he came state side only to do nothing when I adviced them that he had not taken care of issue there was noresponse well that was mwhen he was in SanJuan he is state sid now wo hopefully this will make things much easier my son is now 4yrs old still no support from this dead beat it just kills me to see that here we have this man who is employed and still not willing to tae care of his responsibilities it is sad...If anyone can give me anymore insight on this please do this is an urgent matter that needs attention, I feel that there should be something that i could do i have been dealing with the State for 2yrs now with no avail I guess they don't care because they are not assisting me in anyway my current husband is, so i guess if i collect a CHECK from them then they may feel that this matter warrants attention (no offense to those who need the help of the state) this is strictly how I see them... (HELP)

Hi my husband is a military police in the Army so i emailed him asking him how you could find this guy. He is stationed out in Bosnia right now but this is what he emailed me back. He also said that if you need any help finding the guy that he would gladly assist you. I understand if you dont feel comfortable giving out the information but if you do want the help email us at olvera77@onemain.com ;-) GOODLUCK 2U!!!! OK HERE IS WHAT HE SAID:


hey! for someone to find out where thier ex is they need thier social. all
she has to do is call the post locater. she could also call department of
the army's automated line and find out his current asignment. the army also
has a web sight to find people.. want me to help look? if so just send the info to olvera77@onemain.com

i too am aware of the frustration that can be gained from a "dead beat parent". i am owed over $42,800 dollars in back child support. i never receive any monies from the state in live in (even though they are supposed to collect and have had paperwork to do so for 17 years). i still believe that military members are held to a higher responsibility when it comes to this than that of straight civilians. dont give up on the "system", keep trying. it sounds like you may just have to raise your child the best way you can and not depend on child support as a source of income.if you do get something, then consider yourself lucky. i never have. if i ever get anything it may help pay for college good luck.

Thansk, both of you I really appreciate it. Help 4 u I am not looking to collect support because I am in need but simply because i feel that if you play a part in creating another life you should take care of that responsibility. Some may look at this and think that I am weird but you know what I know this is the right thing to do. My worst fear is to have my son ask me when he is 8-9-or 10 why i didnt try to find his dad and then he will only resent me for that, I say this because as a child myself I did not know my father, I resented my mom for many years because she did not even try I want to be able to look my son in his eyes and say that i honestly tried. Thats just the way i feel adout this situation I made the choice to bring this life into the world and i am going to do my best. Loca, he is in the navy stationed out of Norfolk the sad part is that we were never married, but its ok... I have his duty station address and number but thats to the PSD and the seem not to know exactly where he works on the base... so tell me what do i need to do? Please help loca ask your husband if he can help with navy?

ok he said yes that he can still help and he has already looked into it today and he emailed me telling me what you need to do exactly. if you email me your email address i can just forward the email message to you. hope to hear from you. olvera77@onemain.com ;-)