my babys so sad, dad wont see her, what to do?

My daugher is 3yrs old and her father stopped seeing her in june because i won my child support case against him.his mother told me he just doesnt want to see her till shes 18yrs old. My daugher really misses her dad. She is constantly asking to go see him and her puppy, and she want to see her nana. I keep telling her that she cant go over right now, and she hits me and crys. Its not fair. He has never stayed on a steady visitation sceduale, always off and on for months at a time. And there is a court order that he take her every other weekend and wed. nights. Should i go to court and do something??what should i file??? oh yeah and the other night me and my daugher bumped into his new wife and she started swearing infront of my daughter saying dont you come the F*** near me and i just walked away, my daughter love his wife, and she was just walking over to her causeshe hadent seen her for a while. I have never had one bad thing to say to this woman and this is the second time she has sworn and yelled at me infront of my daughter for no reason. please i need some advise (

[I AM ALWAYS LIABLE]

My response:

This is truly sad. And, what makes it worse, is that a court cannot force him to take advantage of visitation. If he chooses not to visit, there's nothing that can be done. The court can only enforce child support payments.

Sorry.

IAAL

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[LegalBeagle]

This is not legal advice but I want to share something else which is commonly associated with this problem.

First of all, document everything. Get a diary and document all this stuff. This is not from a legal point of view but emotional too. Write down what you are going through, the things that you have done and tried to do and the pain you know your child is suffering.. if you have evidence of all this then all the better.. avoid any unrecorded conversations so always carry a little voice recorder.

Why I hear you ask if there is nothing legal you can do ??

A very good question.. the reason is, that sometime in the future there is a VERY good chance that he will want to see the child again.. one day, when the child is a teenager he could poison their mind with hate of how you would not allow him to visit and that you caused all of the problems and how awful you were.. that he wanted so much to be with the child but you refused etc...

One day, you can show your diary to your child so that they know the truth and that you did nothing wrong...