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dianalynn9864
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This is a long and complicated one. My daughter's best friend wants to move in with my family. She is 17. She was sexually abused by her adulterous mother's boyfriend when she was 8 or 9. The mother didn't believe her and left the family,and now lives with the boyfriend and has a couple of children by him. The father did believe and charges were pressed and the perputrator/boyfriend was incarcerated for a brief time. I don't know all the specifics, but I do know that the welfare of the children is over seen by Delaware County,Pennsylvania's Children and Youth Services. Back to my daughter's friend, I'll call her "C". She came to stay with us for a visit for a week. She was the happiest I have seen her in a very long time. She was able to be a teenager while she was here. Let me give you some more background. After her so-called mother left, "C" and her older sister were left to take care of the home and the three younger brothers. The father worked something like 20 out of 24 hours in order to support the five kids. He couldn't afford a sitter for the children. The older sister was no help, she was always out running and "C" was left to do everything. She was very unhappy at the time and very angry. My daughter and her didn't get along at all back then. Five, six years ago, my daughter and "C" met up with each other in a psycholigical group for girls who have been sexually abused. Yes my daughter was also sexually abused by her paternal grandfather. That is another story. Back to "C", her father did re-marry about 3 or 4 years ago. However, the woman he married had no experience in raising children and is blind. She isn't able to take care of the home or the children. It is all left to "C" still. The older sister left home a year ago,and even before she left she was still out of control and held no responsibilties. The only thing step-mother is good for is giving orders and trying to come between the children and her father. This I have seen with my own eyes. After "C"'s visit with us, she went home and told her father that she no longer wants to live there. She wants to live with us. I spoke with the father and explained that my family would love to have her. He is adament about letting her come. I feel it is because he will be losing "his chief cook and babysitter". I have been in contact with the families CYS counselor and expressed my desire to have "C" come live with us. Is there any other legal steps I can take to set this in motion? Thank you for listening and I appreciate any help you can give me.
Sincerely,
Diana L. Eglseston
Sincerely,
Diana L. Eglseston