My poor children!

Hi, This past Friday my ex-husband was somehow awarded an ex-parte motion to pick up my two minor children. Two policeman, along with ex-in-laws and the childrens father, came into my house at 9pm and took my two year old son out of bed and returned him to his father. The very next day they did the same thing with my little girl. This has completely tramatized both of my children and we miss each other dearly! He was granted this based on lies that he had filed on a motion for contempt.He states that He has no contact with the children which I can prove wrong with phone records. I can not tell you how many lies he has told in order to get this done. Now because of my honesty I no longer have my children. Please, somebody give me some advice on how to get my children back for good. It may also help to know that he is about $4,000.00 behind in child support. Someone help!!!!!

[I AM ALWAYS LIABLE]

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by tracysain75:
[b]Hi, This past Friday my ex-husband was somehow awarded an ex-parte motion to pick up my two minor children. Two policeman, along with ex-in-laws and the childrens father, came into my house at 9pm and took my two year old son out of bed and returned him to his father. The very next day they did the same thing with my little girl. This has completely tramatized both of my children and we miss each other dearly! He was granted this based on lies that he had filed on a motion for contempt.He states that He has no contact with the children which I can prove wrong with phone records. I can not tell you how many lies he has told in order to get this done. Now because of my honesty I no longer have my children. Please, somebody give me some advice on how to get my children back for good. It may also help to know that he is about $4,000.00 behind in child support. Someone help!!!!![/b]<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

My response:

Did you, at any time, ever interfere with his visitation rights? That is, if he came to pick them up, or called for them, did you ever tell him, "Pay up, or forget about seeing your children"?

Also, tell me about yourself. Got a job? Do you take drugs, prescribed or not, to abusive levels? What's your arrest record like? Do the children have clean surroundings, being fed, and watched carefully to keep them out of danger? What were the "truths" that you told the court?

IAAL



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My ex did the same thing to me about one year ago. All lies. I had to get help from legal aid. Not a good attorney to be found here, especially free. I can tell you that the attorney I had talked me into trying to work it out without going to court. I would never do that again!! I was not guilty of anything and the attorneys would tell me that if I went to court it would make the judge mad. What for I have no idea. Now I think I look guilty because I was not willing to defend myself against the lies. He also got more for a fact, than if we would have gone to court. THe judge told me. I actually think he should have been brought up on charges for lieing in a court document. That's all I know about this.

[I AM ALWAYS LIABLE]

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by messydiv:
[b]My ex did the same thing to me about one year ago. All lies. I had to get help from legal aid. Not a good attorney to be found here, especially free. I can tell you that the attorney I had talked me into trying to work it out without going to court. I would never do that again!! I was not guilty of anything and the attorneys would tell me that if I went to court it would make the judge mad. What for I have no idea. Now I think I look guilty because I was not willing to defend myself against the lies. He also got more for a fact, than if we would have gone to court. THe judge told me. I actually think he should have been brought up on charges for lieing in a court document. That's all I know about this.[/b]<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

My dear Messydiv:

Was "Not a good attorney to be found here, especially free" a misprint? If not, can you justify the statement?

Thank you,

IAAL


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Yes I can explain. When you qualify for free legal aid in SD you must pick from a list of attorneys provided by legal aid. When calling on them I found most attorneys on the list wanted the case settled but didn't care about representing me or what was best for the children. My lawyer gave me inaccurate information about what the judge would do in court. It is a small town and the judge said he had told all attorneys he gave no abatements and never would and they know that. I figure if the attorney I had told me to give my ex one he certainly was not looking out for me.

IAAL, is it really that easy to get an ex-parte motion and take custody of children ? or is something missing here ?

Yes it is that easy. No there is nothing missing. I am signing off here because obviously this is not a professional help line otherwise the one asking for help would not become the accused! That is sick. Of course that is how the justice system has become too(at times). So long from SD

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by messydiv:
[b]Yes it is that easy. No there is nothing missing. I am signing off here because obviously this is not a professional help line otherwise the one asking for help would not become the accused! That is sick. Of course that is how the justice system has become too(at times). So long from SD[/b]<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

To give proper help, we sometimes have to ask leading question or some bording on personal. Sometimes we have to ask because most posts do not contain all the information that is required. It is the only way to get the information that is needed to help. No where in this thread is anyone accusing you of anything. If you no longer wish to stay then that is YOUR decision and not because anyone accused you of anything.