Unfortunately, for your plans to be legally viable and acceptable, you have to notify him 30 days prior to removing the child from the state. This gives him time to file something in court to prevent you from doing so. That is going to confuse matters as even if he allowed you to take the baby, you would still have to wait 6 months in Florida before that date would have jurisdiction.
So, you could move, with his permission and then just as your getting settled in and started your brand new job (that you love and it pays well and you don't dare risk losing it!) he files for full custody in New Jersey. Of course, you can still fight that, but you would have to get an attorney in New Jersey and I would definitely recommend showing up to boot!
Anyway, if you are not sure you want to end it completely, you could always tell him you just wanted to clear your head and do some soul searching. (It would still be a good idea just in case to show proof that he knew you were moving and gave his permission.) Then, if you decide that you do want to go through with ending the relationship completely, you would have a head start on the residency requirements.
On the other hand, if you intend to move back to Florida, take a trip back with some of your things, get your license changed to a Florida license and by all means start setting up means to have a domicile there. Once you have done that, as long as you follow through with it, it starts the 6 month countdown for you.
Realistically, I would suggest doing that and then sorting out if he would give you temporary custody.
There's so much that is difficult because you are living together and you intend to move to another state. It would be much easier if you hadn't lived in NJ for so long!
Wish you luck
Tig
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