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LondonGirl
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Hello.. I can use some advice...my husband had a one night stand 9 years ago.. the woman got pregnant .. we just found out through a DNA test done by the state of Idaho that he is my husbands son... we are now paying child support.. well.. now she is taking us to court for back support...day care etc... the thing is she got married.. put her husband on the birth certificate and did not contact my husband till this child was 5 years old. We have tried speaking with her on the phone and telling her we want to include him in our life and just make things right.. she won't have it that way.. she loves the drama of it all.. and the only person suffering is this 8 year old child.. now.. after this trial in Oct.. if we have to pay more than child support.. we will not be able to afford to see him ... he lives in Idaho.. we live in Santa Fe. What do we do? What are my husbands rights? Please help if you can! thanks!