overnight on formula

she is on formula, the mother just switched shifts and we know she had previoisly been spending the night at a sitter. Even our own attorney said nothing about not getting overnights yet. Would it hepl to take in pictures of our nursery to proove we have necessity to have her overnight. Wouldnt it be best to start overnights as scheduled instead of waiting till shes two. The sooner the better, becasue the longer we wait to start overnights the harder it will be right? Like i said she is on formula and the min dosent have an age stipulation on it. No one said anything to us.

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by jamiet:
[b]she is on formula, the mother just switched shifts and we know she had previoisly been spending the night at a sitter. Even our own attorney said nothing about not getting overnights yet. Would it hepl to take in pictures of our nursery to proove we have necessity to have her overnight. Wouldnt it be best to start overnights as scheduled instead of waiting till shes two. The sooner the better, becasue the longer we wait to start overnights the harder it will be right? Like i said she is on formula and the min dosent have an age stipulation on it. No one said anything to us.[/b]<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

Yes, you need to take pictures of your nursery, then take them to the court.... Maybe then the judge can see that he is dealing with a controlling neurotic manipulative woman....

Sorry this one hit a nerve, and I know I said I wouldnt get emotionally involved, but this woman obviously needs to have a child of her own..

[MySonsMom]

Lady: You have confused me..What are you talking about "this woman needs to have a child of her own" and why did this hit a nerve with you?

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MSM, go through and read ALL of her posts, each and every one.. it is as if she has or is expecting a child. Reality is she and her husband maynot even have the child overnight for another year or two and she has a nursery set up? Then the fact that they have not even seen the child or had daay 1 of visitation, and she has all these concerns and is already painting the bio mom as a bad person.
Doesnt that seem a little strange to anyone but me?

[MySonsMom]

Lady:

Yes, do understand your point.

Lady blu: We are simply trying to be prepared for this child and make sure she has a place to sleep. Our attorney has told us we will at least end up with the minimum visitation rights like most men get, which means after the first 3-6 mos of stages she will be at our house for eight hour days and possibly overnight. So do you see why we are getting prepared???!! We want to be on top of things-not go into court and have the judge ask us if we even have proper necessitied to care for her when shes in our home and us have to answer NO. Our court date to set up and begin visitation is in two to three weeks and will stay that way unless the mother get s a continuance. So we are just being prepared. I never said the mother is a horrible person or stated she dosent take care of the baby all i am saying is that we have tried to negotiate visitation and are paying support and she is totally unreasonable. I am sure she takes good care of the baby , i am saying she is not reasonable about visits. She wouldnt even agree to what our court gives as a minimum. She does have a record of vehicular assault and smoked the whole time she was pregnant though. How good is that for baby?

MSM, lady blu is sort of rude saying i need a child of my own! what the hell? i am only trying to help my husband dig information because he is at work and cant. We only want to be prepared for the baby. And yes, i have a vested intrest in my step daughter because she will be my step child first of all, and secondly this situation affects my huabands feelings and i am trying to help things go his way as any of you would do.

MSM, lady blu is sort of rude saying i need a child of my own! what the hell? i am only trying to help my husband dig information because he is at work and cant. We only want to be prepared for the baby. And yes, i have a vested intrest in my step daughter because she will be my step child first of all, and secondly this situation affects my huabands feelings and i am trying to help things go his way as any of you would do.