Residency

Please help.
My husband and I are separated, have been for a month now. We have a 13 month old daughter. We all lived in Texas because my husband is stationed there in the Army. I have moved back with my parents in Illinois.
He saying he is filing papers for me to bring our daughter back to his address. But I am not just going to leave her there,I have been her care giver since she was born. I would like to know if he has the right to do this and make me say there with him which then we would never be separated so we can not file for divorce.I know in order for my daughter and I to be a resident of Il we have to be here 90 days but I think there is something else I can do because my husband will not give me his lawyers name. I have been told I may have to get a lawyer in Texas, expecaly if he files there. My parents,daughter, and I are going to Texas at the end of October to get my things which I have been told I can get. They also told me I can get my dughters things but my husband says I can not. Please help. My husband is in the army and I am not sure if that would effect any law that aply to residency and him trying to make me bring our daughter back. Here is a little more, my husband has been married once or twice before I am not sure. And has 3 other kids form different woman. He pays child support on only one of them. I grew up in Il and joined the Army that is where I met my husband. My husband is from Rhode Island.I don't know if any of this is any concert to help you (PLEASE)answer my questions but I wrote it any way.Thank you so much.
Carrie

As i have learned in many of these posts, in most states you are required to give him so many days notice that you are leaving the state. You were in the Army too so you know that you should go to legal and seek advice. If he isn't going through them,you can. It doesn't matter if you aren't in the Army now and just he is. If you beat him to the legal department they will represent you and not him. Go ask them, or call them on the phone,it's free. They will help you to keep your child with you. He's in the Army which means he probably goes on deployments(my husband is Navy in Texas)therefore, it's very doubtful that he would get custody. I am really surprised that he has 3 kids and the Army isn't making sure he pays for all of them. Well, good luck and call legal as soon as you can.