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amy berry
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Here is my story, my daughter will be 10 on Dec.22nd,the non-custodial parent has been in the military for over 10 years now, he has not seen her since she was 9 months old. I understand he was over seas for a few years, when he returned, he was stationed in Pennsylvania(I live in Ohio)for 6 years.We had the custody papers drawn up 6 years ago. It was supposed to be gradual visitation until my daughter got to know her "father" he has never acted on visitation at all no phone contact, no letters,(my daughter does read!) no birthday cards, nothing at all since she was a baby. He had his wife call me 4 months ago, saying he wanted after all these years,for my daughter to up & go to Penn.to see him,(he couldn`t call himself!) I let it go & there has been no more attempts made on "their" part.He has now been discharged from the military & moved back to his home state in Kentucky, I am afraid he will now after all these years (my daughters entire life)try to see her.He now has 2 kids (I am afraid to try to explain this to my daughter)but never attempted to make a life for his 1st born daughter. I don`t talk bad about him to my daughter at all.She has told me time & time again on her own that she doesn`t want to go to him,that she does not want to stay at a strangers house etc.. She is very shy,very! She got really upset when I told her she may have to go to stay with him at times & she started crying and asked "do I have any say? Will anyone listen to me?" How do I answer a little girl when she asks why her "biological dad"doesn`t want to see her? I had never tried to prebent visitation before, but now I would have to take it back to court before he could see her. What are my daughters rights?