The person i am with now has been trying to get divorced for 2 years. They have been seperated for 9 years and only lived togehter for 4 months as man and wife. This has been an on going case because she abandonded him and left with another man and has been nowhere to be found in 5 years to fianlize this. The last 2 years were spent trying to get this divorce without her consent. Could she ever all of a sudden come back around and try to get something from him if they've been seperated that long? Does she have a leg to stand on to try to get alimony payments after leaving him without a trace and only being a wife to him for 4 months even though 9 years has passed without a divorce taking place? She is a coniving gold digger and we are afraid she will only come around to finalize this if she thinks there is money involved. (There are no children or assets from this marriage) Please Help!!!!!