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Parent1
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MI
Who is responsible for financial costs associated with transportating the minor child out of state and back again for the non-custodial parents visitation?
I have had sole custody of our daughter for about 17 months now. The court directed my ex to pick up and return our daughter to my residence for visitation purposes. This has occured for well over a year now.
Shortly after our divorce was final, the ex moved to Chicago and married a very, very wealthly person. This was no surprise. So for months now, every other weekend (except summer months) the ex flies into Detroit, gets a rental car and drives about 25 minutes to my home to pick up our daughter. They then fly back to Chicago and repeat the entire process again on Sunday evening. That's a lot of money you might say! Well, money has never been a problem as they can afford it. I know I couldn't.
I even agreed to reduce the amount of child support that was ordered by the Friend of the Court by 50%. This was primarly because the Ex quit working! Walked right off the job after eight years. I guess there was no sense in working when you have all the money you need following the marriage.
I even agreed to pick up and return our daughter to the airport which would have eliminated the rental car expense. But apparently that wasn't enough.
The ex has now filed a motion in Court asking that I pay 50% of all cost associated with transportation. This is scheduled for next month. I realize that it is up the the Judge once again, but I am curious as to whether or not there is any case law or history in such a case.
Obviously your comments are welcome too. Let me know what your arrangements are for visitation if your ex is out of state.
Thank you
Parent1
Michigan
[This message has been edited by Parent1 (edited July 25, 2000).]
Who is responsible for financial costs associated with transportating the minor child out of state and back again for the non-custodial parents visitation?
I have had sole custody of our daughter for about 17 months now. The court directed my ex to pick up and return our daughter to my residence for visitation purposes. This has occured for well over a year now.
Shortly after our divorce was final, the ex moved to Chicago and married a very, very wealthly person. This was no surprise. So for months now, every other weekend (except summer months) the ex flies into Detroit, gets a rental car and drives about 25 minutes to my home to pick up our daughter. They then fly back to Chicago and repeat the entire process again on Sunday evening. That's a lot of money you might say! Well, money has never been a problem as they can afford it. I know I couldn't.
I even agreed to reduce the amount of child support that was ordered by the Friend of the Court by 50%. This was primarly because the Ex quit working! Walked right off the job after eight years. I guess there was no sense in working when you have all the money you need following the marriage.
I even agreed to pick up and return our daughter to the airport which would have eliminated the rental car expense. But apparently that wasn't enough.
The ex has now filed a motion in Court asking that I pay 50% of all cost associated with transportation. This is scheduled for next month. I realize that it is up the the Judge once again, but I am curious as to whether or not there is any case law or history in such a case.
Obviously your comments are welcome too. Let me know what your arrangements are for visitation if your ex is out of state.
Thank you
Parent1
Michigan
[This message has been edited by Parent1 (edited July 25, 2000).]