Why me and my daughter?

From day one, the farther of my daughter has not been around, my daughter was a 25 weeks primie and was in the hospital for 5 months and he only visted twice. The day i found out that i was pregnet he we broke up, he turned to hard-core drugs ( making and using meth,crank and who knows)even his drug lab were busted and on the local news,has a little bit of history with the law after we broke up. I made it very clear to him that he would not be seeing my daughter when he is using drugs, seemed to be fine to him. did not call for the first 1 1/2, one day he thought he should think about fartherhood, and took me to court, did the parternity testing and went back for the parenting plan he didnt bother to show up because he was on who knows what kind of drugs that day. But the court gave me all rights to her in a Final Parenting plan. No word from him after that. Now she is 3 1/2 years old he think he can walk into her life a be a farther,because he payed his first child support payment in 3 1/2 years he is ready to be a farther, and i told him it doenst work that way. now he is threating me to take me back to court, to get a parenting plan done. I dont think that he knows that he doesnt have any rights to her, and i dont want to say anything to him about it because i dont want to get him mad and then he will defently take me to court to revised this parenting plan, so i told him that i dint have a problem with him seeing my daughter, just call in advance and let me know you want to see her, and he said o.k. he say her once, and a month and a half later he calls threating me again tell me we need to go to court to get a parenting plan done, and asked him what happend to this last plan we had so you can see her, his excuse was he was woking!! And i told straight out that he his not going to do this to my daughter head, he is not going to be there when he thinks about her and makes time when he is not on drugs and that it's not fair to my daughter to mess with her little heart and emotions, and he thraten me to take me court to decide that, and told me it was my fault that i ruiend his relationship with his daughter because i crushed his heart and broke up with him, and that's how come he turned to hard-core drugs! and he hung up on me and said see you in court, it's not like she dosent have a farther figure in her life we live with my parents and 20 year old brother and which she is very close to them both,and i could not ask for any other farther figure in her life, my dad and brother are awsome!!!! I havent dated any one sense the day i consived with my daughter, because i dont think that it right to date and try to find mr. Right when my daughter doesnt understand "dating" and i chose to have my daughter and i am going to be there for her, and i wouldnt have had her if i didnt know that my dad and brother would be willing to be a farther figure to her, and she is the happiest little 3 1/2 year old ever!!! so IF her farther does go through it and takes me to court, what are his chance in getting any rights? would it be better to go to court to get a revised parenting plan, or just tell him to call and make time for him to see her? i just dont want to have to put my daughter through this knowing in my heart he will not keep up with this fartherhood for long? In my heart i cant let my daughter head and heart go through this? please any advise! thank you for taking the time to read this.

honey,let him take you to court they will probally lock his ass up for harrassment!im in the exact same situation as you and i know that we were there doin all the "need be stuff" and handlin things by ourselves so we have way more rights than the *******s that left! and u really should date because maybe you will be more calm and worry free if you know you have somebody that will be a real father figure that u may be w/for life,because it may seem right not to date now,but eventually u will see that you are living for your daughter only,your still a person-you deserve it! go find you a good man-if youd like to talk further-email me at tweet99782@aol.com

Let him take you to court with his history i think he won't have much of a chance.My G/F's child's father is trying to get custody of her son.She has gone as far as putting a restraing order against him till court. even if the court awards him visitation rights she can request suppervised visitations but with your situation i think he wouldn't have much of a chance with his past history
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