Obey? yes. Comply? no. To simply obey without questioning the order refers back to slaves. I don't rebel or scream and yell when told to do something. I do it and do it quikly to the best of my ability's. By simply wanting to be with my girlfriend I am disobeying? Where is the logic? she is her own person with her own mind she shouldnt be owned like an animal in a zoo and kept under lock and key.
Ok, reality check for you:
1) you are both minors. Until you are 18, you are under the control of your parents
2) She ran away home. Until she is 18, her parents have the duty, obligation, the responsibility to take care of their child. If that means she's grounded and can't go anywhere but home and school and/or work? Suck it up buttercup, it doesn't matter what you want, or what she wants
3) If you believe your girlfriend is being abused and/or neglected then you need to speak to an adult about your concerns.
4) If they have told you to leave her alone, then you should probably leave her alone, because...see #1!
5) If you do not leave her alone, you will be subject of a restraining order/no contact order. If you persist after that, then you could easily wind up in heap big trouble w/ legal consequences.
6) If all of your "witnesses" are similar/same age as you, they are going to have to present really well to the court to be viewed as reliable witnesses. Had they been frightened or upset by the "threats" from her parents? Your witnesses would have spoken up a lot sooner than NOW.
You should shut up, sit down and stop behaving like a know-it-all brat. (and so should she).
If the relationship is truly meant to be, it will be! (once she turns 18 and is no longer under the care of her parents).