What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Missouri
My husband and I have 2 children, our oldest is 7 months, our second is due in January. We have been discussing what we need to do to get ourselves together legally in the event one or both of us die unexpectedly.
One of the issues that we foresee is the possibility of grandparent visitation. It seems in my state (Missouri) that if we remain married, and mutually decide grandparent visitation is not in the best interest of our children, the law is in our favor. Is there any way that my husband can put in writing that upon his death, his parents cannot be granted visitation rights? In the event of his death, I would want to be able to dictate when my children & I could visit, instead of them being granted visits that I am obligated to comply with.
I am asking about visitation rights only at this point, because it is my understanding that custody of our children cannot be granted without very convincing grounds, but that visitation may be granted if there was an existing relationship with grandparents. Please correct me if I am wrong.
His parents are currently married, and we visit with his mother anywhere from 1-4 times a month, depending on schedules. His father has not seen our oldest (she is 7 months currently) in over 6 months, since she was 3 weeks old. Contact & visits were limited, even before we had children, due to some personal disputes involving finances, taxes, and a few other personal reasons (nothing like serious abuse, or anything blatantly illegal). We have never lived with them in the time we have been married, nor have we depended on them to provide for us financially.
I do not know how much background you may need, but I am happy to answer any additional questions, if need be.
1.)Do we (my husband & I) have the capability of denying visitation rights to his parents, should he die?
2.)If so, what is the best way to go about it (ie: anything specific we need to discuss with a lawyer when we do get around to creating a will)?
Thank you.
My husband and I have 2 children, our oldest is 7 months, our second is due in January. We have been discussing what we need to do to get ourselves together legally in the event one or both of us die unexpectedly.
One of the issues that we foresee is the possibility of grandparent visitation. It seems in my state (Missouri) that if we remain married, and mutually decide grandparent visitation is not in the best interest of our children, the law is in our favor. Is there any way that my husband can put in writing that upon his death, his parents cannot be granted visitation rights? In the event of his death, I would want to be able to dictate when my children & I could visit, instead of them being granted visits that I am obligated to comply with.
I am asking about visitation rights only at this point, because it is my understanding that custody of our children cannot be granted without very convincing grounds, but that visitation may be granted if there was an existing relationship with grandparents. Please correct me if I am wrong.
His parents are currently married, and we visit with his mother anywhere from 1-4 times a month, depending on schedules. His father has not seen our oldest (she is 7 months currently) in over 6 months, since she was 3 weeks old. Contact & visits were limited, even before we had children, due to some personal disputes involving finances, taxes, and a few other personal reasons (nothing like serious abuse, or anything blatantly illegal). We have never lived with them in the time we have been married, nor have we depended on them to provide for us financially.
I do not know how much background you may need, but I am happy to answer any additional questions, if need be.
1.)Do we (my husband & I) have the capability of denying visitation rights to his parents, should he die?
2.)If so, what is the best way to go about it (ie: anything specific we need to discuss with a lawyer when we do get around to creating a will)?
Thank you.