What is the name of your state (only U.S. law) Pennsylvania
Hello all Nice to meet you. Here's my back story:
My fiance and I (we're not married yet) have created two children together (ages 2 1/2 and 8 months). We moved from California to Pennysvania because my fiance's mother offered to give us a house. When we arrived here, it turned out that she didn't want to give us the house, but instead decided to 'rent' it to us. First they tried to get us to sign a renters agreement, and we refused (we came on the context that there were no strings attached). Two weeks ago they sent us the following email:
"Congratulations on being a PA resident for one year as of last week. As you know for one year we have paid all taxes and insurance for the xxx xxxxx home so that you may be able to get on your feet. The taxes consist of xxx County Taxes ($1030.60), xxx Township taxes ($385.63), xxxx Township School District taxes ($5,450.13), and State Farm Insurance ($846.00). The total for the year under the current rates comes to $6,019.00 ($501.00 per month). We know you appreciate us paying these for you up until now.
As you recall our agreement with you was that you would pay the taxes and insurance. We would like you to begin paying the monthly rate of $501.00 to us on Aug 1, 2010 and continue paying the first of each month going forward. That will cover the cost of the taxes and insurance.
Thank you. Please let me know if you have any questions. "
Although we agreed to pay the house taxes, it was under the agreement that the house was to be ours, so we would cover its expenses (including maintanence, taxes, etc... because that's what a home owner does) Up till March, they paid for the taxes and utilities on the house (minus phone and internet) while my fiance worked at a variety of minimum wage jobs while trying to secure steady employment. Thankfully, he recently got a job that could support our family - but now we're concerned that if we don't comply to his mother and step-father's wishes, they will try to take custody of our children on the grounds that they've helped support us for the last 8 months. If that is the case, I would fly back to california tomorrow to stay with family so that they cannot take our children away. The questions:
Here's the questions:
1) Can the grandparents successfuly sue for custody of our children in PA? (we pay all our utilities now, and starting August, will be paying them $501 dollars to cover the taxes. (neither fiance or I has any criminal record, our children are well taken care of)
2) If we pay the $501 to them, can the grandparents claim we entered a legal contract with them (on the basis of the email they sent sent) and therefore be financially 'trapped' here in this house in PA, giving them the ability to claim we owe them money and can't leave till we pay?
Further note: My fiance is concerned about this because he had a co-worker who lost a child in PA to grandparental custody. And at the time, the coworker was able to support himself and living on his own- he wanted to make sure that didn't happen to us
Thank you in advance for any answers you can provide
Hello all Nice to meet you. Here's my back story:
My fiance and I (we're not married yet) have created two children together (ages 2 1/2 and 8 months). We moved from California to Pennysvania because my fiance's mother offered to give us a house. When we arrived here, it turned out that she didn't want to give us the house, but instead decided to 'rent' it to us. First they tried to get us to sign a renters agreement, and we refused (we came on the context that there were no strings attached). Two weeks ago they sent us the following email:
"Congratulations on being a PA resident for one year as of last week. As you know for one year we have paid all taxes and insurance for the xxx xxxxx home so that you may be able to get on your feet. The taxes consist of xxx County Taxes ($1030.60), xxx Township taxes ($385.63), xxxx Township School District taxes ($5,450.13), and State Farm Insurance ($846.00). The total for the year under the current rates comes to $6,019.00 ($501.00 per month). We know you appreciate us paying these for you up until now.
As you recall our agreement with you was that you would pay the taxes and insurance. We would like you to begin paying the monthly rate of $501.00 to us on Aug 1, 2010 and continue paying the first of each month going forward. That will cover the cost of the taxes and insurance.
Thank you. Please let me know if you have any questions. "
Although we agreed to pay the house taxes, it was under the agreement that the house was to be ours, so we would cover its expenses (including maintanence, taxes, etc... because that's what a home owner does) Up till March, they paid for the taxes and utilities on the house (minus phone and internet) while my fiance worked at a variety of minimum wage jobs while trying to secure steady employment. Thankfully, he recently got a job that could support our family - but now we're concerned that if we don't comply to his mother and step-father's wishes, they will try to take custody of our children on the grounds that they've helped support us for the last 8 months. If that is the case, I would fly back to california tomorrow to stay with family so that they cannot take our children away. The questions:
Here's the questions:
1) Can the grandparents successfuly sue for custody of our children in PA? (we pay all our utilities now, and starting August, will be paying them $501 dollars to cover the taxes. (neither fiance or I has any criminal record, our children are well taken care of)
2) If we pay the $501 to them, can the grandparents claim we entered a legal contract with them (on the basis of the email they sent sent) and therefore be financially 'trapped' here in this house in PA, giving them the ability to claim we owe them money and can't leave till we pay?
Further note: My fiance is concerned about this because he had a co-worker who lost a child in PA to grandparental custody. And at the time, the coworker was able to support himself and living on his own- he wanted to make sure that didn't happen to us
Thank you in advance for any answers you can provide
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