What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Arkansas
Ok so this is gonna be a little long but I want to give details! My son is two and 1/2 and I have done everything my self! His biological father lived with me until he was a little over a year old, but it just didnt work because he never had any money to help with anything, he only worked to buy himself beer and drugs. Finally we fought enough and he moved out. He has never paid any support( i filed with child support enforcement but nothing ever came of it) and he has seen him like 6 times maybe in the last year and I have we have both since been married. I have been married 6 months and in december my ex told me that he would sign rights over for my husband to adopt when we were able to. My son and husband have a great relationship and love each other very much, my son wants to do everything he does and my husband treats him better than his dad ever did (obviously). Thats besides the point, I have continued letting my ex's parents see my son on a regular basis and maintained a good relationship with them, but the last several months they have started acting crazy. They became very demanding and controlling. They were almost harassing me, they were calling me every day, texting me tons and just trying to tell me how everything had to be done. They were bossing me around and just driving me nuts. I had been letting them see him every Friday night and it was very inconveniant for me so i asked them to start saturday nights insted and they did for a couple weeks but then said they had to change back it didnt work for them, I said ok, even though I told them it was not good for me. With there never ending calls and texts and demands I just needed some space and I asked them for that, some space with my son, time to work on my family, time to be a newly wed and time to make big decisions on the next step in my future. They flipped out and said it was unexceptable (this was the last weekend in janurary). I just wanted a couple weeks to travel and spend time with myson with no interuptions and they said it was wrong of me and her response was "if youve been dating someone for 4 years and all the sudden ask for space, how do you expect that person to feel", not to mention she had introduced me to people as her daughter in law (and her son and I were never married). I said, well its not permanent I just need some time to myself and after you can have him every other weekend, because I want to start having my weekends with him. She would not listen and still acted crazy, with this I said well, on March 11th you can see him since you want a set date but until then I want space. She never stopped the calls and text and still wanted him every weekend so I got scared and started ignoreing her text and calls. I was scared that if I did take him to meet her she wouldnt be there with him when it was time to pick him up. Well, on Monday I got served with papers requesting grandparent visitation and for my ex to establish paternity and get visitation. In the papers it says that I "unilaterally terminated visitation", I am just very confused by this and wonder if I could actually be ordered to give them visitation. All I did was try to restrict it. I also wonder as to the validity of the "grandfather" being on there, he is only my ex's step parent.
Ok so this is gonna be a little long but I want to give details! My son is two and 1/2 and I have done everything my self! His biological father lived with me until he was a little over a year old, but it just didnt work because he never had any money to help with anything, he only worked to buy himself beer and drugs. Finally we fought enough and he moved out. He has never paid any support( i filed with child support enforcement but nothing ever came of it) and he has seen him like 6 times maybe in the last year and I have we have both since been married. I have been married 6 months and in december my ex told me that he would sign rights over for my husband to adopt when we were able to. My son and husband have a great relationship and love each other very much, my son wants to do everything he does and my husband treats him better than his dad ever did (obviously). Thats besides the point, I have continued letting my ex's parents see my son on a regular basis and maintained a good relationship with them, but the last several months they have started acting crazy. They became very demanding and controlling. They were almost harassing me, they were calling me every day, texting me tons and just trying to tell me how everything had to be done. They were bossing me around and just driving me nuts. I had been letting them see him every Friday night and it was very inconveniant for me so i asked them to start saturday nights insted and they did for a couple weeks but then said they had to change back it didnt work for them, I said ok, even though I told them it was not good for me. With there never ending calls and texts and demands I just needed some space and I asked them for that, some space with my son, time to work on my family, time to be a newly wed and time to make big decisions on the next step in my future. They flipped out and said it was unexceptable (this was the last weekend in janurary). I just wanted a couple weeks to travel and spend time with myson with no interuptions and they said it was wrong of me and her response was "if youve been dating someone for 4 years and all the sudden ask for space, how do you expect that person to feel", not to mention she had introduced me to people as her daughter in law (and her son and I were never married). I said, well its not permanent I just need some time to myself and after you can have him every other weekend, because I want to start having my weekends with him. She would not listen and still acted crazy, with this I said well, on March 11th you can see him since you want a set date but until then I want space. She never stopped the calls and text and still wanted him every weekend so I got scared and started ignoreing her text and calls. I was scared that if I did take him to meet her she wouldnt be there with him when it was time to pick him up. Well, on Monday I got served with papers requesting grandparent visitation and for my ex to establish paternity and get visitation. In the papers it says that I "unilaterally terminated visitation", I am just very confused by this and wonder if I could actually be ordered to give them visitation. All I did was try to restrict it. I also wonder as to the validity of the "grandfather" being on there, he is only my ex's step parent.