Home     Law Advice     Insurance Advice     Community    
Go Back   FreeAdvice Legal Forum > FAMILY LAW > Grandparent’s Rights

Powered by Attorney Pages


  Find An Attorney In Your Area    
 

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Rate Thread Display Modes
  #1  
Old 08-26-2009, 06:53 PM
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Aug 2009
Posts: 1
Exclamation

Grandmother wants to get full custody


My mother lives in PA and she wants to get full custody of my neice due to my sister being an unfit mother. My sister does not take proper care of her nor does she support her. My sister is 22 years old, does not have a job, sleeps all day until 11:30 am. When she is awake she is more worried about her social life and running the streets with guys and her friends than about her 2 year old daughter. If my sister isn't out hanging with her friends she's in bed, and doesn't want to be bothered with anything when it comes to my neice. My mother who is disabled (walks with a cane, but that doesn't interfere with her everyday life) takes care of my neice from the time she gets up in the morning to the time she goes to bed at night. My mother is lucky if she gets help with one diaper change throughout the day. My mother is on S.S.D. and supports both my sister and neice on just her check that she gets once a month. Anyone have any advice or suggestions on what my mother can do?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
  #2  
Old 08-26-2009, 06:58 PM
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2007
Posts: 8,389
nothing you stated says mom is unfit.

grandma will not be able to take custody of the child based on your posts.

where is the father of the baby?

is the child fed? clothed? roof over her head? CPS involved? child being left alone while mother goes out?
  #3  
Old 08-26-2009, 07:07 PM
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: Thebes
Posts: 6,071
Looks to me like grandmother is her own worse enemy in this case. Since she does everything for the child and makes sure she is well taken care of, then mom has nothing to worry about.

If grandma were to say that she had to live on her own and take care of her daughter things would be different.

Grandma is an enabler and daughter will take advantage of that. If grandma wants custody of the child she is going to have to evict daughter and child, see child suffer (maybe, maybe not) and then involve the authorities if the child is not being cared for. At that point then it is still a huge "IF."
__________________
Dang the Persephone for eating those pomegranate seeds. It is because of her urge to snack that we must suffer through the winter that will soon be upon us.
Reply



Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Thread Tools
Display Modes Rate This Thread
Rate This Thread:

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is Off
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On
Forum Jump

All times are GMT -5. The time now is 05:26 PM.



IMPORTANT NOTICE
THE VIEWS EXPRESSED ON THIS PAGE WERE NOT REVIEWED BY THE EDITORIAL STAFF OR ATTORNEYS AT FREEADVICE.COM. Thousands of professionally prepared and reviewed questions and answers in 130 legal categories are to be found at the Question and Answer pages at FreeAdvice.com.

F
reeAdvice Forums are intended to enable consumers to benefit from the experience of other consumers who have faced similar legal issues. FreeAdvice does NOT vouch for or warrant the accuracy, completeness or usefulness of any posting or the qualifications of any person responding. Use of the Forums is subject to our Terms and Conditions which prohibit advertisements, solicitations or other commercial messages, or false, defamatory, abusive, vulgar, or harassing messages, and subject violators to a fee for each improper posting. All postings reflect the views of the author but become the property of FreeAdvice. Information on FreeAdvice or a Forum should not be relied upon and is not a substitute for advice from an attorney licensed in your jurisdiction who you have retained to represent you. To locate an attorney visit AttorneyPages.com. Copyright since 1995 by Advice Company. All Rights Reserved.