grandparent issue

[Bonnie63]

oregon


i had left a post awhile back on my daughter as she is in a gay relationship sense last yr and her partner dad is dying. and they plan to move over to her partner country (tinian) out by guam
well my daughter divorce hasent been final yet but will be shortly according to her. and her partner has actually proposed to her.. the thing is that my daughter told my mom that her partner has enough mileage save for one of the kids. so meaning she would take one of my grandkids with her... which is crap. for her partner has no right for she is not legaly there or is she there guardian, she has no right to let her partner take any of my grandkids without my daughter to her country... she doesnt even have the money... they have been selling praticly everything in the house even selling her truck that she bought when she got her taxes. they knew then they were going to leave.(they wernt thinking) no one has any money to even try to consider buying the truck.
and i keep asking her if you dont sell the truck what are you going to do, and her reply back is dont be so negative... well im not im just asking what she going to do for her partner is needing to leave in 2weeks..
as for my grandkids the 2 oldest ones there dad didnt sign there birthcertifcate but for the baby (she 3yrs) he sign it and yes he is the father of all 3 kids. and i know that they dont want to go they have stated that several times.my daughter is giving up a good job to go to country where there min wage is under $4 hour.. thats pretty bad.

i admit im stubborn.. but crap my daughter is 3times more stubborn than me....


so what can i do as in rights for my grandkids or what is my moms rights..

we all feel my daughter is in complety in the wrong

[Proserpina]

Originally Posted by Bonnie63

oregon


i had left a post awhile back on my daughter as she is in a gay relationship sense last yr and her partner dad is dying. and they plan to move over to her partner country (tinian) out by guam
well my daughter divorce hasent been final yet but will be shortly according to her. and her partner has actually proposed to her.. the thing is that my daughter told my mom that her partner has enough mileage save for one of the kids. so meaning she would take one of my grandkids with her... which is crap. for her partner has no right for she is not legaly there or is she there guardian, she has no right to let her partner take any of my grandkids without my daughter to her country... she doesnt even have the money... they have been selling praticly everything in the house even selling her truck that she bought when she got her taxes. they knew then they were going to leave.(they wernt thinking) no one has any money to even try to consider buying the truck.
and i keep asking her if you dont sell the truck what are you going to do, and her reply back is dont be so negative... well im not im just asking what she going to do for her partner is needing to leave in 2weeks..
as for my grandkids the 2 oldest ones there dad didnt sign there birthcertifcate but for the baby (she 3yrs) he sign it and yes he is the father of all 3 kids. and i know that they dont want to go they have stated that several times.my daughter is giving up a good job to go to country where there min wage is under $4 hour.. thats pretty bad.

i admit im stubborn.. but crap my daughter is 3times more stubborn than me....


so what can i do as in rights for my grandkids or what is my moms rights..

we all feel my daughter is in complety in the wrong

Actually your daughter can nominate any responsible adult to pick up her children; she does have that right.

Why hasn't your son filed for custody/visitation?

[Bonnie63]

i dont think you read my post right, as you said that any responsable adult can pick my grandkids up...(huh)

thats not what i even said

i had said that i dont feel its right for my daughter partner to take one of the kids with her to her country before my daughter and the other kids go over there. for she is not there legal guarden nor there parent.. and what does my son have anything to do with this.(he doesnt)
im thinking you had ment to say son-n-law
well hes in jail hes been there for 2yrs and has another 3yrs to go

[Ohiogal]

Originally Posted by Bonnie63

i dont think you read my post right, as you said that any responsable adult can pick my grandkids up...(huh)

thats not what i even said

i had said that i dont feel its right for my daughter partner to take one of the kids with her to her country before my daughter and the other kids go over there. for she is not there legal guarden nor there parent.. and what does my son have anything to do with this.(he doesnt)
im thinking you had ment to say son-n-law
well hes in jail hes been there for 2yrs and has another 3yrs to go

Your daughter can allow her partner to move with her children if she wants. You have no standing. Your son-in-law can petition to block the move but he is in prison for another three years so he cant' get custody. You have no right to interfere quite frankly.

[LdiJ]

For anyone that is interested, Tinian is part of the Northern Mariana Islands which are a territory of the United States. It has a population of 3500 people and and is 31 square kilometers in size. Its biggest employers are the government and a local casino. There are daily flights in and out of its airport.

Doesn't sound like a really winning situation for a gay couple with children in tow.

However, its totally mom's decision.