What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NJ
I do not speak to my sister, my mom or my dad anymore. Recently, i have stopped speaking with my dad because He oversteps in our lives and doesn't respect my husband and I when it comes to the decisions we make when it comes to our son. For example, We will not let our son see my sister or my mom because of how toxic and down right evil they are. My dad has been upset and disrespecting us when it comes to our son by sending them pictures and trying to pressure us into letting them see our son. So Now - my dad has not tried since the beginning of may to see our son and has only seen him a total of 5 or 6 times since hes been born. Up until the past two weeks, he has not contacted my husband or I to try and see our son or to even see how he is. He is taking us to court to get visitation rights and I feel that it is only to teach us a lesson so that we learn "not to challenge him" (his words not mine). We don't want him seeing our son because of the way he acts towards us, and because of the negative energy it will bring into our lives again and more importantly into our sons lives. We have a terrible relationship with him now and as parents we feel that it isn't a good situation for our son to be in. I just don't know what to do anymore. I really am lost. I am at my witts end. I don't think that it is in our sons best interest to have a relationship with any of them and I just need advice or guidance or something.
I do not speak to my sister, my mom or my dad anymore. Recently, i have stopped speaking with my dad because He oversteps in our lives and doesn't respect my husband and I when it comes to the decisions we make when it comes to our son. For example, We will not let our son see my sister or my mom because of how toxic and down right evil they are. My dad has been upset and disrespecting us when it comes to our son by sending them pictures and trying to pressure us into letting them see our son. So Now - my dad has not tried since the beginning of may to see our son and has only seen him a total of 5 or 6 times since hes been born. Up until the past two weeks, he has not contacted my husband or I to try and see our son or to even see how he is. He is taking us to court to get visitation rights and I feel that it is only to teach us a lesson so that we learn "not to challenge him" (his words not mine). We don't want him seeing our son because of the way he acts towards us, and because of the negative energy it will bring into our lives again and more importantly into our sons lives. We have a terrible relationship with him now and as parents we feel that it isn't a good situation for our son to be in. I just don't know what to do anymore. I really am lost. I am at my witts end. I don't think that it is in our sons best interest to have a relationship with any of them and I just need advice or guidance or something.