What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Indiana
I'm needing some advice...
My FIL, who is extremely unstable.. won't keep a job.. can't hold onto a relationship.. about a year ago, he got his CDL and took a trucking job. This took him away from home for the whole year.. he only came home like 3 times.. and most of the time we had pretty short notice. But we still worked it out to go to dinner and meet with him.. my husband, our son and I.. the thing is my husband has 2 boys from a previous marriage which we have every other weekend. And every time he was in town, just those 3 times, we didn't have the boys. A couple of them were even during the day at lunch time when the boys were in school.. and we live an hour from the boys anyway.... it just wasn't possible. But we in no way, shape or form were denying him the chance to see his grandkids. Like I said.. we always got together with him when he was here. But, it isn't our fault he took a trucking job and was never home... and it didn't work out, right?
Well, apparently he called and left a message last night and we got it this morning. He told us how he had quit his job (again) and was back in town and then demanded to see the boys. Well we already had Father's Day plans and couldn't. So my husband called him and told him that we already had plans and then told him we would be happy to get together with him the next weekend we have them in 2 weeks.. no problem. He just sighed and agreed. Then we found out he stalked my husbands ex and went to her work.. she wasn't there at the time.. but he talked to a co worker of hers and demanded that she give my husbands ex his phone number to call him because he wanted to see the boys today. Well.. we still had them and hadn't even dropped them off yet. She gets the message and tells us about it when we drop them off.
My husband then calls him to talk about it and his dad starts telling us how his girlfriend of the moment is suing her daughter to see her grandkids and threatened to do it to us. I feel like this is completely ridiculous and bogus, but I wanted to ask. Can he even sue for that?? I mean I know he could go to an attorney, but would it even go anywhere? Would they even listen to him? We can't help that he took a job trucking all over the country and was never home... we met with him every time he was here, and were sorry it didn't work out to see the other boys.. but we couldn't help it. And are willing to get together the next weekend we have them. I mean I understand that he is upset that he hasn't seen them.. but suing??? We have never kept him from seeing them.. even though he hasn't been a HUGE part of their lives over the past few years. I don't know. I guess I'm just looking for a little reassurance about this.
Thanks for your help!
I'm needing some advice...
My FIL, who is extremely unstable.. won't keep a job.. can't hold onto a relationship.. about a year ago, he got his CDL and took a trucking job. This took him away from home for the whole year.. he only came home like 3 times.. and most of the time we had pretty short notice. But we still worked it out to go to dinner and meet with him.. my husband, our son and I.. the thing is my husband has 2 boys from a previous marriage which we have every other weekend. And every time he was in town, just those 3 times, we didn't have the boys. A couple of them were even during the day at lunch time when the boys were in school.. and we live an hour from the boys anyway.... it just wasn't possible. But we in no way, shape or form were denying him the chance to see his grandkids. Like I said.. we always got together with him when he was here. But, it isn't our fault he took a trucking job and was never home... and it didn't work out, right?
Well, apparently he called and left a message last night and we got it this morning. He told us how he had quit his job (again) and was back in town and then demanded to see the boys. Well we already had Father's Day plans and couldn't. So my husband called him and told him that we already had plans and then told him we would be happy to get together with him the next weekend we have them in 2 weeks.. no problem. He just sighed and agreed. Then we found out he stalked my husbands ex and went to her work.. she wasn't there at the time.. but he talked to a co worker of hers and demanded that she give my husbands ex his phone number to call him because he wanted to see the boys today. Well.. we still had them and hadn't even dropped them off yet. She gets the message and tells us about it when we drop them off.
My husband then calls him to talk about it and his dad starts telling us how his girlfriend of the moment is suing her daughter to see her grandkids and threatened to do it to us. I feel like this is completely ridiculous and bogus, but I wanted to ask. Can he even sue for that?? I mean I know he could go to an attorney, but would it even go anywhere? Would they even listen to him? We can't help that he took a job trucking all over the country and was never home... we met with him every time he was here, and were sorry it didn't work out to see the other boys.. but we couldn't help it. And are willing to get together the next weekend we have them. I mean I understand that he is upset that he hasn't seen them.. but suing??? We have never kept him from seeing them.. even though he hasn't been a HUGE part of their lives over the past few years. I don't know. I guess I'm just looking for a little reassurance about this.
Thanks for your help!