amberreger
Junior Member
I am in New York State and i just had a baby who is right now 3 and a half months old. Me and my sons father are not together but he is on the birth certificate and paternity has been proven. My sons father has no legal custody or visitation set up yet though and he has not made any move to go to court and get that set up. I allow him to come see his son every time he asks but i will not let him take my son on his own yet i feel he is to little and he has not been around enough to know how to properly care for him. Now my Exs mother is taking me to court for her grandparent rights to get court ordered visitation with him even though i allow her to see him probably once or twice a month depending how busy i am from taking care of a newborn baby on my own i have never tried to keep my son from her but she is not satisfied and wants at least once a week visits with him without me there, she wants one on one time with him like a parent when she isn't even a parent to him. Can she really get court ordered visitation just because she wants more time with him that she is not getting? Its not like i am keeping him from her so she needs a court to intervene and also he is only 3 months old this time i feel is crucial and important to be spent with parents to build that bond and so the parents can fully get into their new life as parents and caring for their child how can she have the right to interfere with that? Wouldnt it be her sons responsibility to encourage that relationship, i do not for the rest of my life want to follow a court ordered visitation schedule with my exs mother i feel that is taking away from my rights and freedom as a mother. What usually happens in new york state for GPV and do you think she will be granted visitation in a case like this? what can i do to try to prevent this from happening? Thank you.