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CaBwS

Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Ohio

The grandparents (the child's mother's parents) of our child are threatening to file for visitation of our child. The child's mother and myself are not married but we are engaged and we are getting married soon. We asked a simple thing of the grandparents when they were watching our daughter and they disregarded it and did it anyways. A huge argument broke out and we no longer feel it is ok for our daughter to be around them if they are not going to follow our parenting requests. Our question is, will they be able to obtain visitation since the child's mother and myself are not married yet? If they can, would that change if we were to get married?
 


I'mTheFather

Senior Member
Getting married now will not help to prevent them from filing.

If they file, get an attorney right away. It is possible for them to get an order for visitation depending on several factors.

You ought to try to repair the relationship, and begin to visit them with the child.
 

Ohiogal

Queen Bee
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Ohio

The grandparents (the child's mother's parents) of our child are threatening to file for visitation of our child. The child's mother and myself are not married but we are engaged and we are getting married soon. We asked a simple thing of the grandparents when they were watching our daughter and they disregarded it and did it anyways. A huge argument broke out and we no longer feel it is ok for our daughter to be around them if they are not going to follow our parenting requests. Our question is, will they be able to obtain visitation since the child's mother and myself are not married yet? If they can, would that change if we were to get married?
Here is the statute:
§ 3109.12. Mother unmarried - parenting time, companionship or visitation rights



(A) If a child is born to an unmarried woman, the parents of the woman and any relative of the woman may file a complaint requesting the court of common pleas of the county in which the child resides to grant them reasonable companionship or visitation rights with the child. If a child is born to an unmarried woman and if the father of the child has acknowledged the child and that acknowledgment has become final pursuant to section 2151.232 , 3111.25 , or 3111.821 of the Revised Code or has been determined in an action under Chapter 3111. of the Revised Code to be the father of the child, the father may file a complaint requesting that the court of appropriate jurisdiction of the county in which the child resides grant him reasonable parenting time rights with the child and the parents of the father and any relative of the father may file a complaint requesting that the court grant them reasonable companionship or visitation rights with the child.

(B) The court may grant the parenting time rights or companionship or visitation rights requested under division (A) of this section, if it determines that the granting of the parenting time rights or companionship or visitation rights is in the best interest of the child. In determining whether to grant reasonable parenting time rights or reasonable companionship or visitation rights with respect to any child, the court shall consider all relevant factors, including, but not limited to, the factors set forth in division (D) of section 3109.051 of the Revised Code. Divisions (C), (K), and (L) of section 3109.051 of the Revised Code apply to the determination of reasonable parenting time rights or reasonable companionship or visitation rights under this section and to any order granting any such rights that is issued under this section.
The marriage or remarriage of the mother or father of a child does not affect the authority of the court under this section to grant the natural father reasonable parenting time rights or the parents or relatives of the natural father or the parents or relatives of the mother of the child reasonable companionship or visitation rights with respect to the child.

If the court denies a request for reasonable parenting time rights or reasonable companionship or visitation rights made pursuant to division (A) of this section and the complainant files a written request for findings of fact and conclusions of law, the court shall state in writing its findings of fact and conclusions of law in accordance with Civil Rule 52.

Except as provided in division (E)(6) of section 3113.31 of the Revised Code, if the court, pursuant to this section, grants parenting time rights or companionship or visitation rights with respect to any child, it shall not require the public children services agency to provide supervision of or other services related to that parent's exercise of parenting time rights with the child or that person's exercise of companionship or visitation rights with the child. This section does not limit the power of a juvenile court pursuant to Chapter 2151. of the Revised Code to issue orders with respect to children who are alleged to be abused, neglected, or dependent children or to make dispositions of children who are adjudicated abused, neglected, or dependent children or of a common pleas court to issue orders pursuant to section 3113.31 of the Revised Code.


Cite as R.C. § 3109.12
They have standing. Now it is going to depend on what is seen as reasonable and in the best interest of the child.
 

dannyt

Member
they were wrong

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Ohio

The grandparents (the child's mother's parents) of our child are threatening to file for visitation of our child. The child's mother and myself are not married but we are engaged and we are getting married soon. We asked a simple thing of the grandparents when they were watching our daughter and they disregarded it and did it anyways. A huge argument broke out and we no longer feel it is ok for our daughter to be around them if they are not going to follow our parenting requests. Our question is, will they be able to obtain visitation since the child's mother and myself are not married yet? If they can, would that change if we were to get married?
the grandparents brought this on themselves by disregarding the parents wishes. they owe mom and dad an apology and in the future need to respect their wishes. id do the same thing, grandma and grandpa were way out of line
 

BL

Senior Member
the grandparents brought this on themselves by disregarding the parents wishes. they owe mom and dad an apology and in the future need to respect their wishes. id do the same thing, grandma and grandpa were way out of line
What was the Request ? Again. Don't want to answer ,fine . If grands have had frequent visitation and meaning ful relations ,the can petition. Show Grands are detramental to the child's well being !!
 

Just Blue

Senior Member
the grandparents brought this on themselves by disregarding the parents wishes. they owe mom and dad an apology and in the future need to respect their wishes. id do the same thing, grandma and grandpa were way out of line
Oh. Dear. GOD!! Its back....:eek:
 

Proserpina

Senior Member
Oh. Dear. GOD!! Its back....:eek:

Okay. It wasn't you, it wasn't me, I heavily doubt it was Silver, OG, Stealth, LdiJ, Zig or any other reputable poster...soooo...

WHO DID IT?! Who stood in front of that mirror and repeated THAT NAME 3 times?

I demand an answer.
 

SESmama

Member
Sssshhhhhhh!!!!! If we ignore it maybe it will go away?


(And I might not yet post a whole bunch I do get tired of regurgitated information when it has been already posted on a thread)
 
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Just Blue

Senior Member
Okay. It wasn't you, it wasn't me, I heavily doubt it was Silver, OG, Stealth, LdiJ, Zig or any other reputable poster...soooo...

WHO DID IT?! Who stood in front of that mirror and repeated THAT NAME 3 times?

I demand an answer.
It was probably justtooknotes. :p
 

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