Papaandnana
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Nh
We have taken care of my grandson for his whole life (7 years). He has lived with us while my daughter never came home at night , lived with her boy friend in a rented room in someone's house and then moved on to live in a rented house for a year before they got tossed out for not paying their rent. During that time she had two kids with that boy friend. Grandson number one (the one that lives with us) father is not part of his life at all and he is in jail. Once my daughter and boy friend got kicked out for not paying the rent we of course let my daughter move in with us. We tried letting the boy friend stay here knowing it wouldn't work. Their entire relation ship is constant fighting and has gotten to the point they had to call the police before . When he lived here the two faught every minute and my husband had to break it up several times . My daughter works 8 hours per week with no desire to work more and the boy friend works about 15 hours a week and can't show up on time or at all . The boyfriends mom lives 2000 miles away and says she can get him a job making big money and they can live with her for a while. My daughter now is planning on taking the two kids with him and the first grandson that lives with us down there because that's where the easy job is. My first grandson will be devastated . We are like his true parents and his entire family is up here. Everything he knows. I could go on and on but I won't. In a nut shell is there anything we can do or are we powerless? My daughter does not care about the feelings of her son the one that lives with us and she says he will get over it. He will be crushed. She has never got him up for school once in his life etc etc etc. thank youWhat is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
We have taken care of my grandson for his whole life (7 years). He has lived with us while my daughter never came home at night , lived with her boy friend in a rented room in someone's house and then moved on to live in a rented house for a year before they got tossed out for not paying their rent. During that time she had two kids with that boy friend. Grandson number one (the one that lives with us) father is not part of his life at all and he is in jail. Once my daughter and boy friend got kicked out for not paying the rent we of course let my daughter move in with us. We tried letting the boy friend stay here knowing it wouldn't work. Their entire relation ship is constant fighting and has gotten to the point they had to call the police before . When he lived here the two faught every minute and my husband had to break it up several times . My daughter works 8 hours per week with no desire to work more and the boy friend works about 15 hours a week and can't show up on time or at all . The boyfriends mom lives 2000 miles away and says she can get him a job making big money and they can live with her for a while. My daughter now is planning on taking the two kids with him and the first grandson that lives with us down there because that's where the easy job is. My first grandson will be devastated . We are like his true parents and his entire family is up here. Everything he knows. I could go on and on but I won't. In a nut shell is there anything we can do or are we powerless? My daughter does not care about the feelings of her son the one that lives with us and she says he will get over it. He will be crushed. She has never got him up for school once in his life etc etc etc. thank youWhat is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?