What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? PA
Hello everyone. I was wondering if anyone can give me any advice about my situation.
My fomer MIL was awarded supervised visitation with my children shortly after their father died almost 4 years ago. I don't know how she got this, considering she had not seen my children for at least 2 years prior to his death. My late h didn't want his children around his mother or stepfather, after stepfather threatened bodily harm to him, and his own mother threatened to hit him while he was holding our then 8 month old 2nd baby. I remember my late h telling me that he also found a white powdery substance in his stepdad's locker at work one time. His mother also asked him to buy pain pills from guys at his work another time.
This woman blames me for her son's death (suicide) and had no problem telling people that at his funeral and even at other times.
Anyway, she was awarded visitation that was to occur every other Sunday for 2 hours. The first year, she came to slightly more than half of her visits, always coming up with some stupid excuse as to why she couldn't come.
Last year, she made it to a total of 8 visits. If she'd have come to them all, she would've had 26 visits last year. Last year, she left almost half of the visits she managed to come to early to do things for other people, or to go shopping. There was a span of about 3 months where we didn't hear from her at all.
She NEVER calls between her visits, does not call my children on their birthdays or holidays, she just pretty much shows up whenever she feels like it, or it's convenient for her. Promises my children that she'll bring this or that to her next visit, then show up emptyhanded.
We are going to be moving to a different part of the state in the middle of the year.
Well, the other day, I get served with papers to go back to mediation because she wants to have the supervised part removed and have the days changed. I don't understand her, she got what she wanted, kind of, couldn't even follow THAT, and is taking me back again to have the order changed.
Why can't I have her visits terminated? My middle child (age 6) told me that she does not want to go to her grandmas house, she wants her to visit at our house. She said that she's scared to go there. My youngest does not seem to care, and my oldest said that she thinks "she'll survive" if she has to go to her grandma's house, but does have reservations about going there without my presence.
I realize that she'll probably not lose her visits, and I'm not holding out much hope that she'll still be stuck with the supervised visits. What recourse, if any, do I have??? What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
Hello everyone. I was wondering if anyone can give me any advice about my situation.
My fomer MIL was awarded supervised visitation with my children shortly after their father died almost 4 years ago. I don't know how she got this, considering she had not seen my children for at least 2 years prior to his death. My late h didn't want his children around his mother or stepfather, after stepfather threatened bodily harm to him, and his own mother threatened to hit him while he was holding our then 8 month old 2nd baby. I remember my late h telling me that he also found a white powdery substance in his stepdad's locker at work one time. His mother also asked him to buy pain pills from guys at his work another time.
This woman blames me for her son's death (suicide) and had no problem telling people that at his funeral and even at other times.
Anyway, she was awarded visitation that was to occur every other Sunday for 2 hours. The first year, she came to slightly more than half of her visits, always coming up with some stupid excuse as to why she couldn't come.
Last year, she made it to a total of 8 visits. If she'd have come to them all, she would've had 26 visits last year. Last year, she left almost half of the visits she managed to come to early to do things for other people, or to go shopping. There was a span of about 3 months where we didn't hear from her at all.
She NEVER calls between her visits, does not call my children on their birthdays or holidays, she just pretty much shows up whenever she feels like it, or it's convenient for her. Promises my children that she'll bring this or that to her next visit, then show up emptyhanded.
We are going to be moving to a different part of the state in the middle of the year.
Well, the other day, I get served with papers to go back to mediation because she wants to have the supervised part removed and have the days changed. I don't understand her, she got what she wanted, kind of, couldn't even follow THAT, and is taking me back again to have the order changed.
Why can't I have her visits terminated? My middle child (age 6) told me that she does not want to go to her grandmas house, she wants her to visit at our house. She said that she's scared to go there. My youngest does not seem to care, and my oldest said that she thinks "she'll survive" if she has to go to her grandma's house, but does have reservations about going there without my presence.
I realize that she'll probably not lose her visits, and I'm not holding out much hope that she'll still be stuck with the supervised visits. What recourse, if any, do I have??? What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
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