I live in CA. Right now my mother is taking care of my sister's 4 kids. My sister just doesnt seem to want any contact with her kids. She doesnt call, unless she needs something. She cant pay her bills, she owes us all money. She's just up to no good. She's unfit to take care of her own children. It's of course taking a toll on the kids. They get in trouble in school and sometimes behave very badly at home. OUR home that is, NOT their home which they have rooms and belongings there. Their own mom just makes excuses for not being able to pick them up and spend time with her. My other sister and I try to help out, but my mom is the one who buys them things they need for school, clothes, food, everything that a parent should be taking care of. But my mom also works full time, so does my other sister, and I do also but my schedule is way more flexible. Unfortunately when the kids are in need of a ride to or from school, were forced to ask their mom. It's sad that we dont even want to ask her. If we do ask for help like that, we need to call way in advance or else she'll come up with some excuse for not being able to. It's been this way for many years, off and on, mostly "on". There is a major financial strain for my family because of the cost of my mom raising her 4 grandkids. There's so much burden on her and she needs help paying for everthing. Is there any kind of government help or anything for my mother that is having to raise her grandkids? She's being forced to look for a part time job when she already has a hectic full time job. Should she get custody of the kids or become guardian? And then that would probably be very expensive, so would she be able to get help with that too? I'm so frustrated. I just need some kind of help or information. I really can't understand how someone can just stand back and let their own family have to deal with everything.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?