Hoffmane21
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
I have been working for 3 months at a company where the owner has constantly bullied everybody that works there. He treats people really badly and has lost a number of quality employees from it. I have very very bad anxiety and acute stress reaction from which I have been diagnosed a couple years ago.
Recently, my mom has been diagnosed with cancer, a friend shot himself in the head and commit suicide, and another had a heart attack and died, all in two weeks. Even with that, I have still been keeping up with work, am 2 days ahead of my work, and have completed extra projects the owner has givin me. Not once have I gotten behind whatsoever.
Today I recieved an email from him, I will copy and paste a few lines:
We absolutely need to get this list completed and emailed out to the lawyer. Although I certainly emphasize with your recent personal issues I have a business to run and other people’s livelihood depend on the timely completion of your job. (I completed this already and we even spoke on friday regarding this. The lawyer has all the info and even responded with an email copying him that says he recieved it.)
Second, you do not want me to be forced to choose who goes if I cannot keep you and other staff from wasting time. Your position has always been part time which you have stretched to full time. I’d be OK with full time if you were getting my tasks done. You are not so one of us needs to make a change. (Again, I have all of my work completed, as well as these extra projects. There are NO TASKS I have not gotten done, and I even spoke to the manager, and she agrees I am caught up, and ahead. I even came in saturday to make sure everything was done.)
Third, you take time off for your personal reasons when it suits you while your business tasks stall and languish incomplete; how about finding time to make up the time you’ve lost and getting caught up so we can move on? (I had to leave work in an ambulance! Again, I came in and made up time on an unscheduled day AND did extra stuff I wasn't even told to do.)
This has sent me into a major anxiety attack and I am not doing well at all. There was NO reason for this email, and there is a lot more on there that was rude and hurtful and just plain not true which I will not include right now. Point is, I have all of my work done, his tasks done, and he is yelling at me for nothing.
I am ready to go talk to my doctor because I cannt handle this type of stress and I am crying at work and trying not to throw up. I am being bullied and I haven't done anything that he says I have done wrong.
I was also recently in the hospital (which I stated earlier) and found out I had spasmodic torticollis and that can come on due to high stress, and I am in pain from it. It includes neck spasms and face tremors. I feel the tight muscle in my neck and don't want to land in the hospital again.
With doctors suggestion, can I leave work and go on disability or UI until I can get myself healthy? I have a family to feed, and I am doing my best, and for this person it is not good enough.
I have been working for 3 months at a company where the owner has constantly bullied everybody that works there. He treats people really badly and has lost a number of quality employees from it. I have very very bad anxiety and acute stress reaction from which I have been diagnosed a couple years ago.
Recently, my mom has been diagnosed with cancer, a friend shot himself in the head and commit suicide, and another had a heart attack and died, all in two weeks. Even with that, I have still been keeping up with work, am 2 days ahead of my work, and have completed extra projects the owner has givin me. Not once have I gotten behind whatsoever.
Today I recieved an email from him, I will copy and paste a few lines:
We absolutely need to get this list completed and emailed out to the lawyer. Although I certainly emphasize with your recent personal issues I have a business to run and other people’s livelihood depend on the timely completion of your job. (I completed this already and we even spoke on friday regarding this. The lawyer has all the info and even responded with an email copying him that says he recieved it.)
Second, you do not want me to be forced to choose who goes if I cannot keep you and other staff from wasting time. Your position has always been part time which you have stretched to full time. I’d be OK with full time if you were getting my tasks done. You are not so one of us needs to make a change. (Again, I have all of my work completed, as well as these extra projects. There are NO TASKS I have not gotten done, and I even spoke to the manager, and she agrees I am caught up, and ahead. I even came in saturday to make sure everything was done.)
Third, you take time off for your personal reasons when it suits you while your business tasks stall and languish incomplete; how about finding time to make up the time you’ve lost and getting caught up so we can move on? (I had to leave work in an ambulance! Again, I came in and made up time on an unscheduled day AND did extra stuff I wasn't even told to do.)
This has sent me into a major anxiety attack and I am not doing well at all. There was NO reason for this email, and there is a lot more on there that was rude and hurtful and just plain not true which I will not include right now. Point is, I have all of my work done, his tasks done, and he is yelling at me for nothing.
I am ready to go talk to my doctor because I cannt handle this type of stress and I am crying at work and trying not to throw up. I am being bullied and I haven't done anything that he says I have done wrong.
I was also recently in the hospital (which I stated earlier) and found out I had spasmodic torticollis and that can come on due to high stress, and I am in pain from it. It includes neck spasms and face tremors. I feel the tight muscle in my neck and don't want to land in the hospital again.
With doctors suggestion, can I leave work and go on disability or UI until I can get myself healthy? I have a family to feed, and I am doing my best, and for this person it is not good enough.