What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
I am 26 years old. I am attending a university and I was formerly working for a professor on campus, who I was not involved with in an educational way whatsoever. After I was fired, the professor found my father's private business line on her own, which was never provided by me to the employer or even the university, and called him to inform him of my termination and that a police report would be filed on me if I did not return the keys to her office. She also felt it her duty to tell him I had not registered yet for classes for the next semester. Obviously angry, my father wrote her back asking for more information. As for me, I have called her and e-mailed her, and she has not replied at all. I immediately returned the keys and assumed our relationship was over. Tonight, four days later, she wrote my father back (still without replying to my messages) to let him know she has more to tell him about me once winter break ends, and told him that he needs to contact my academic advisor.
Our relationship didn't end well, but I didn't do anything horrible, certainly nothing remotely criminal. I feel she has crossed the line, is making this personal, and is acting solely to damage me. I also feel she is unfairly using her position as a professor on campus to find out academic information about me and use it as a weapon by feeding it to my father. All of this without returning my calls or replying to any of my messages. I have never given her permission in any way to discuss my employment situation or my academic situation with anyone but myself. I am not a minor nor a dependent.
Is any of this OK? Was it right for her to contact my father at all regarding the termination of my employment? Is it legal? As solely my employer, is it right for her to be able to use her position as a professor to discover academic information about me, and then in turn inform my father of such information? Is my privacy being breached, and am I being harassed? She has caused me great emotional distress over the last week, none of which would have occurred if she hadn't contact my father. She didn't give me any call or warning that she was going to do so. What should I do?
I am 26 years old. I am attending a university and I was formerly working for a professor on campus, who I was not involved with in an educational way whatsoever. After I was fired, the professor found my father's private business line on her own, which was never provided by me to the employer or even the university, and called him to inform him of my termination and that a police report would be filed on me if I did not return the keys to her office. She also felt it her duty to tell him I had not registered yet for classes for the next semester. Obviously angry, my father wrote her back asking for more information. As for me, I have called her and e-mailed her, and she has not replied at all. I immediately returned the keys and assumed our relationship was over. Tonight, four days later, she wrote my father back (still without replying to my messages) to let him know she has more to tell him about me once winter break ends, and told him that he needs to contact my academic advisor.
Our relationship didn't end well, but I didn't do anything horrible, certainly nothing remotely criminal. I feel she has crossed the line, is making this personal, and is acting solely to damage me. I also feel she is unfairly using her position as a professor on campus to find out academic information about me and use it as a weapon by feeding it to my father. All of this without returning my calls or replying to any of my messages. I have never given her permission in any way to discuss my employment situation or my academic situation with anyone but myself. I am not a minor nor a dependent.
Is any of this OK? Was it right for her to contact my father at all regarding the termination of my employment? Is it legal? As solely my employer, is it right for her to be able to use her position as a professor to discover academic information about me, and then in turn inform my father of such information? Is my privacy being breached, and am I being harassed? She has caused me great emotional distress over the last week, none of which would have occurred if she hadn't contact my father. She didn't give me any call or warning that she was going to do so. What should I do?
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