Clean Sanchez
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? Virginia
We have an aupair from Brazil on a J1 visa. She had one month left on her one-year program with us when she requested to rematch to another family. Her reasons were because we found out she was trying to rematch with another family right down the road from us who had tried to sneak their aupair back into the US on a B1 visa after her J1 expired.
Originally she said she wanted to go outside Virginia to see other states, but we found out she really wants to go to this family because she will have her own car, very easy working hours, and that we "cramp her active social life."
Problem is she was going to take a 3-week vacation prior to joining the other family...the au pair agency found out and was NOT happy as there can be no gaps in service if she changes families.
She has been trying to find ways to stay in the US illegally: tons of US Citizen male friends and she has been talking to money- and credit-lending businesses. But most important is that her childcare skills have gone down the tubes: our kids are scared of her and she has made our son's medical condition worse through stress.
We would like to send her back to Brazil, but she has the DS-2019 extension and can stay a year. If she goes to another family, we feel that family should be informed about these shortcomings, but the au pair agency doesn't want to pass on our info and feels she has the right to go to whatever family she chooses.
I have the contact info for State and the consulate where she got her visa. I have a security clearance and don't want to get dinged a few years from now because she was a visa overstay either. If we can't get her sent back, how do we make sure the new family is aware of our problems with her? Children could be injured because of her (and I can't go into detail about all that here...)
We have an aupair from Brazil on a J1 visa. She had one month left on her one-year program with us when she requested to rematch to another family. Her reasons were because we found out she was trying to rematch with another family right down the road from us who had tried to sneak their aupair back into the US on a B1 visa after her J1 expired.
Originally she said she wanted to go outside Virginia to see other states, but we found out she really wants to go to this family because she will have her own car, very easy working hours, and that we "cramp her active social life."
Problem is she was going to take a 3-week vacation prior to joining the other family...the au pair agency found out and was NOT happy as there can be no gaps in service if she changes families.
She has been trying to find ways to stay in the US illegally: tons of US Citizen male friends and she has been talking to money- and credit-lending businesses. But most important is that her childcare skills have gone down the tubes: our kids are scared of her and she has made our son's medical condition worse through stress.
We would like to send her back to Brazil, but she has the DS-2019 extension and can stay a year. If she goes to another family, we feel that family should be informed about these shortcomings, but the au pair agency doesn't want to pass on our info and feels she has the right to go to whatever family she chooses.
I have the contact info for State and the consulate where she got her visa. I have a security clearance and don't want to get dinged a few years from now because she was a visa overstay either. If we can't get her sent back, how do we make sure the new family is aware of our problems with her? Children could be injured because of her (and I can't go into detail about all that here...)