"Respectfully", heh. I love how civilized forums are becoming. Or maybe its just now becoming a medium for civilized people. hmm. But I meander...
Actually I was looking for more of a shotgun spray of advice, a jumping in point. I am not even sure of what questions to ask. How bout, "How do I get a Visa for my wife if I am not a current US resident?", "If I do not reside in one specific state and am not certain which state I wish to reside in, what state do I find a suitable attorney in?"
And out of curiosity, no real base in this one, "I-186 is used to establish suportability. Have there been any 'sexist' rulings for or against?"
lol, did you know that 'meander' is a Greek word?
Here's your shotgun spray:
http://www.familybasedimmigration.com/forum/showthread.php?t=824
You don't have to have a 'residence' in the US. However, you must establilsh or re-establish 'domicile' in the US to qualify as her financial sponsor for the Affidavit of Support I-864. This is not a difficult thing to do, and there is information in the linked article discussing how you do it.
You don't 'get' your wife a visa, btw. You petition her (I-130) and when that is approved, she applies for a visa. You'll do this all through your local Consulate; their webpage will have instructions specific to them.
Plan on about 5 months to complete this (perhaps less if filing in Dublin vs London, check which office you use) and will cost a little over $1100US. There will be a medical exam, police reports ordered and you'll need originals of your birth certificates, marriage certificate, some passport photos (US specific size) etc.
The I-864 is the most complex of the forms, but if you have sufficient assets, you don't need a US job beforehand (getting one doesn't hurt of course). Your current foreign income can't be used to sponsor her immigration unless it will continue when you are in the US.
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