I have a close friend with mental health issues about 1 year ago she met a man named Alexis on Craig's list. He is from Honduras and he sneaked in the country has been living in Las Vegas 14 years then moved to North Dakota currently. She met him in May of 2014 and 2 months later he was already proposing marriage. That made me very suspicious of him immediately. Of course he denies it, and ever since then he's been trying to keep us away from each other. At first he was sweet then over the course of the year he started changing becoming controlling and raising his voice a lot. He's good for awhile maybe 2 weeks then he starts up again like a yo-yo. She's had the police there twice for his behavior. He managed to talk his way out of it. He's a very smooth talker. The police know he's illegal and did nothing. They won't arrest him unless he commits a crime.
July of 2015 he finally got her to marry him. Over 1 month ago she told me he asked her if she would talk to an immigration lawyer for him. He didn't say what for and she also said she heard him say to someone he's working on bringing his kids to this country. He also has his mother staying with them on a visa. I'm no expert but I don't think an illegal can bring their kids here?
In the next apartment building there's a whole group of illegals hiding there that the landlord doesn't know about. They are all his co workers. The lease holder is his boss. His boss's son drives to Texas and brings illegals up here after they sneak in the country to work for him. Alexis was hiding there before he met my friend. Alexis's boss co-signed the apartment for him he's living in because he has no social security number. My friend moved in with him shortly after. The police know about the other people but again they have to commit a crime first.
About a month ago he invited me to the apartment to talk about how I had it all wrong about him and that she was making everything up. He made her out to be some kind of liar which I know is not true. He's a very good talker very convincing. I didn't tell him I knew about the lawyer business or the other people he would have yelled at my friend after I left. It turns out he was trying to get on my good side after I left she told me he was saying stuff about me.
Maybe I'm wrong but in my mind I find it hard to trust someone who doesn't feel they need to follow the rules like everyone else. There's a lot of really nice people who come here legally every year. A part of me feels he's taking advantage of my friend. She's the only female that ever got with him here and it could be because other women knew better to be involved in this. My friend has a case worker and social worker that would help her leave him but she gets confused on what to do. When he's controlling she's bent on leaving when he acts nice again then she wants to try and stay. Forgot to mention she has a 14 year old autistic son. She's talked about leaving at least six times then always changes her mind.
Is it possible he's using her? If she doesn't help him can she still get into trouble?
Thank you
July of 2015 he finally got her to marry him. Over 1 month ago she told me he asked her if she would talk to an immigration lawyer for him. He didn't say what for and she also said she heard him say to someone he's working on bringing his kids to this country. He also has his mother staying with them on a visa. I'm no expert but I don't think an illegal can bring their kids here?
In the next apartment building there's a whole group of illegals hiding there that the landlord doesn't know about. They are all his co workers. The lease holder is his boss. His boss's son drives to Texas and brings illegals up here after they sneak in the country to work for him. Alexis was hiding there before he met my friend. Alexis's boss co-signed the apartment for him he's living in because he has no social security number. My friend moved in with him shortly after. The police know about the other people but again they have to commit a crime first.
About a month ago he invited me to the apartment to talk about how I had it all wrong about him and that she was making everything up. He made her out to be some kind of liar which I know is not true. He's a very good talker very convincing. I didn't tell him I knew about the lawyer business or the other people he would have yelled at my friend after I left. It turns out he was trying to get on my good side after I left she told me he was saying stuff about me.
Maybe I'm wrong but in my mind I find it hard to trust someone who doesn't feel they need to follow the rules like everyone else. There's a lot of really nice people who come here legally every year. A part of me feels he's taking advantage of my friend. She's the only female that ever got with him here and it could be because other women knew better to be involved in this. My friend has a case worker and social worker that would help her leave him but she gets confused on what to do. When he's controlling she's bent on leaving when he acts nice again then she wants to try and stay. Forgot to mention she has a 14 year old autistic son. She's talked about leaving at least six times then always changes her mind.
Is it possible he's using her? If she doesn't help him can she still get into trouble?
Thank you