elillyleader
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Washington
I have worked at the same store for the past few years. There is another employee, lets call her Kim, there who has been there for many years and was even a manager but now only works there once a week. Kim harasses everyone, attacking people and making inappropriate comments. We have all complained about her but our highest up managers never do much besides talk to her since she has been with the company so long. Due to medical reasons Kim can't even do the job she is supposed to and I am really tired of them defending someone who can't do their job and causes problems in the work place.
Heres my problem:
when I first started working there I dated a coworker. We are no longer dating or in contact and he doesn't work there. Yet Kim enjoys bringing him up, telling me about his personal life, and still comments on our relationship. She has also asked several inappropriate questions about my sex life. The other day I was saying something and she went off on me about how immature I was, and used many profanities at me to describe how she felt about me. I told several shift managers about it and one said to call the number listed for complaints against other employees. Another manager said it would be hard to complain because Kim was there early and hadn't clocked in. She attacked me on my lunch.
What I am worried about:
Is this even a case about harassment or am I being dramatic? Will I have to get other coworkers to speak up about their situations with her and/or gather documentation of these events? Also I am afraid to go to HR when I previously dated a coworker as I feel it doesn't sound well in the story for me. And I would like to keep this anonymous from her. I have a strong feeling this will keep getting shoved under the rug and she will know I complained about her and it will only make her more hateful towards me.
Thank you for any opinions or advice on the matter.
I have worked at the same store for the past few years. There is another employee, lets call her Kim, there who has been there for many years and was even a manager but now only works there once a week. Kim harasses everyone, attacking people and making inappropriate comments. We have all complained about her but our highest up managers never do much besides talk to her since she has been with the company so long. Due to medical reasons Kim can't even do the job she is supposed to and I am really tired of them defending someone who can't do their job and causes problems in the work place.
Heres my problem:
when I first started working there I dated a coworker. We are no longer dating or in contact and he doesn't work there. Yet Kim enjoys bringing him up, telling me about his personal life, and still comments on our relationship. She has also asked several inappropriate questions about my sex life. The other day I was saying something and she went off on me about how immature I was, and used many profanities at me to describe how she felt about me. I told several shift managers about it and one said to call the number listed for complaints against other employees. Another manager said it would be hard to complain because Kim was there early and hadn't clocked in. She attacked me on my lunch.
What I am worried about:
Is this even a case about harassment or am I being dramatic? Will I have to get other coworkers to speak up about their situations with her and/or gather documentation of these events? Also I am afraid to go to HR when I previously dated a coworker as I feel it doesn't sound well in the story for me. And I would like to keep this anonymous from her. I have a strong feeling this will keep getting shoved under the rug and she will know I complained about her and it will only make her more hateful towards me.
Thank you for any opinions or advice on the matter.
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