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Sunnyside
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What is the name of your state? Ohio
My new boss of 5 months (I'm female) gave me a bad review even though I gave her 110% effort in return. We got off to a bad start and we talked things through and I thought things were ok until my review. It was very negative and contradictory. She went to extremes to show that I was overpaid. (I could provide internet research to prove otherwise but didn't). The reference she used said that she too was overpaid so I feel confident that it would follow suit for all of us at the company but don't know for sure since she won't allow me to view this book.
She has been making references about my sleeping with another employee because he was nice to me. We (the man and I)are both married to others. Under the circumstances, I struggled to not show my feelings of dislike so I ignored it at first, then went along with it, then even gave her a taste of her own medicine. She continued. She even said things to me in front of other employees. I told her I didn't like it.
My question: I want to put in writing a formal letter asking her to refrain from using the verbage of myself and another employee's sleeping arrangements. I don't feel I have a relationship to salvage since her review of me was so poor. I believe this is the company's way of trying to get me to leave so they won't have to pay unemployment to me. What can I expect if I submit that letter and should I tell her verbally first that I am doing so? And I did go to HR when she said something to others but HR laughed it off. I have been told by others that sexual content has been in her conversations to them as well (mostly men where I work). She is a manager. Can they fire me if I hand that in? Do I have any recourse at all? Can upper management accuse me of handing it in now due to a poor review? Sure, I didn't want to jeopardize a possible raise but I was at conflict more with what it would do to our relationship. It suffers now due to the poor review and I have proven her wrong in several areas to myself. I don't know why she did this unless she used her positon to do it or her boss said to do it. I don't know. I have not been reprimanded for my work performance prior to this review.
Can you advise me??? I'm at my wit's end....thank you so much.
My new boss of 5 months (I'm female) gave me a bad review even though I gave her 110% effort in return. We got off to a bad start and we talked things through and I thought things were ok until my review. It was very negative and contradictory. She went to extremes to show that I was overpaid. (I could provide internet research to prove otherwise but didn't). The reference she used said that she too was overpaid so I feel confident that it would follow suit for all of us at the company but don't know for sure since she won't allow me to view this book.
She has been making references about my sleeping with another employee because he was nice to me. We (the man and I)are both married to others. Under the circumstances, I struggled to not show my feelings of dislike so I ignored it at first, then went along with it, then even gave her a taste of her own medicine. She continued. She even said things to me in front of other employees. I told her I didn't like it.
My question: I want to put in writing a formal letter asking her to refrain from using the verbage of myself and another employee's sleeping arrangements. I don't feel I have a relationship to salvage since her review of me was so poor. I believe this is the company's way of trying to get me to leave so they won't have to pay unemployment to me. What can I expect if I submit that letter and should I tell her verbally first that I am doing so? And I did go to HR when she said something to others but HR laughed it off. I have been told by others that sexual content has been in her conversations to them as well (mostly men where I work). She is a manager. Can they fire me if I hand that in? Do I have any recourse at all? Can upper management accuse me of handing it in now due to a poor review? Sure, I didn't want to jeopardize a possible raise but I was at conflict more with what it would do to our relationship. It suffers now due to the poor review and I have proven her wrong in several areas to myself. I don't know why she did this unless she used her positon to do it or her boss said to do it. I don't know. I have not been reprimanded for my work performance prior to this review.
Can you advise me??? I'm at my wit's end....thank you so much.