jakehart800
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? CA
Ok. But you do realize that's not ALL we need, right?My State is CA
Sorry for some reason i did not realize that my post did not come right.Ok. But you do realize that's not ALL we need, right?
Details on what happened, please. No details, no responses.
you would have to ask her1) If I did anything wrong during that evening (as is being claimed) then why did she not report me immediately?
you would have to ask her or her attorney2) Why did she wait 4-5 mths before sending a letter via her attorney to my employer?
it sounds like you may have been doing this as an incidental part of your employment. If so, then your employer is required to deal with sexual harassment by their employees. If it had no association with your employment, then they are not obligated to do anything.3) What is my employer’s liability on this incident since this happened outside of work? The HR person told me that they have to respond back since they received a letter from the other party’s attorney.
find a cave on a deserted island and never leave it and never accept visitors.4) What other ways can I protect myself here?
well, apparently originally she wanted you. Now my guess is she still wants you....to suffer. We are back to the; you would have to ask her or her lawyer.5) I have never received any direct charges from this lady so am pretty perplexed at what she wants?
you would have to ask her
you would have to ask her or her attorney
it sounds like you may have been doing this as an incidental part of your employment. If so, then your employer is required to deal with sexual harassment by their employees. If it had no association with your employment, then they are not obligated to do anything.
find a cave on a deserted island and never leave it and never accept visitors.
Seriously, do not do things that may be seen as sexual harassment, especially if you are in an activity that can be seen as part of your employment. You cannot stop a crazy person from being crazy if that is what you are asking.
well, apparently originally she wanted you. Now my guess is she still wants you....to suffer. We are back to the; you would have to ask her or her lawyer.
It can't hurt to consult with an attorney, but I don't think you need to take any further action yet. Your HR sounds as if they are supporting you, and taking the matter seriously.
Consult with an attorney, and then decide when you hear what he says.
Lemon, we need to talk about your continuing inability to meet men of character. Being your mentor means providing guidance to you on how to dress, eat, and goodness sake pull the lettuce out of your hair. When you go back downstairs, tell Tracy he can keep the facial tattoos.In the future when you meet a woman who is over 18 and seems attractive and available, do not try to pick her up by using your excellent job with your excellent company and offering to be her mentor in the business world.