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stephstew123
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What is the name of your state? California
----- Original Message -----
From: stephstew123
To: [email protected]
Sent: Tuesday, April 22, 2003 11:45 AM
Subject: feelingpunished
I was hired on 09-05-02. My boss tells me he hired me because I was a "Hottie" a couple of months later. I am 37 years old, never married with one 15 year old son, so needless to say I was flattered. He has been married for 15 years and has two sons. He continued to make innuendos and comments about how pretty I was, or how good I looked in certain jeans and became very open in his attraction to me. I told him it wouldn't be a good idea to continue these thoughts. He continued to pursue me and it really felt nice to receive the compliments and attention. He went out of his way to be nice, he helped me move into my new apartment, took me to an out surgery appointment, gave me money for food and eventually I gave in and became sexually involved. I continued to tell him he needed to work things out with his wife but he sad he didn't love her anymore and that the only thing that has made him smile in a very long time besides his sons was me. At work he started paying too much attention to me, constantly around me making the other employees and myself feel weird. I told him he needed to stay away from me at work, he needed to let me do the job I was hired for and to stop helping me with the everything. Eventually, the other employees went to my supervisors supervisor and complained of inappropriate behavior and preferential treatment. Now my problem is: When upper management came to address this complaint, they immediately sent my boss home and interrogated all my co-workers, even calling them in on their days off. Not one time was I spoken to about anything. It was Friday and I was soon to be off work. After completing their investigation (one week later) they told my boss that one of us (my boss or me) was going to be transferred to another store and to talk to me about transferring to a store 7 miles away (mind you I just moved into an apartment after being hired at this job not more than 1/4 mile away from it so I could walk to work due to not having transportation ). They told him to tell me that I was needed at that store and to offer me a .50 raise to transfer. I immediately said "NO", that it wasn't feasible for me to do this I refuse. He relayed this to them and was told they would get back to him. Not once was I spoken to, so I demanded that they explain to me themselves. The following week they came in, called me into the office and told me that I would be starting at the other location the following morning and that if I didn't clock in they would take that as a sign of my resignation. I ask about the raise and he said they didn't have to because it wasn't over 50 miles relocation. Not one thing happened to my boss. He no longer sees me or talks to me after promising me marriage, money and a life together (which is ok). I feel as though I was punished. I now HATE my job, feel uncomfortable with the new all male crew and I feel the company more or less approved of his behavior. My life is now miserable. While his life is just great. He has since hired another female. What can I do about this unfair treatment?
----- Original Message -----
From: stephstew123
To: [email protected]
Sent: Tuesday, April 22, 2003 11:45 AM
Subject: feelingpunished
I was hired on 09-05-02. My boss tells me he hired me because I was a "Hottie" a couple of months later. I am 37 years old, never married with one 15 year old son, so needless to say I was flattered. He has been married for 15 years and has two sons. He continued to make innuendos and comments about how pretty I was, or how good I looked in certain jeans and became very open in his attraction to me. I told him it wouldn't be a good idea to continue these thoughts. He continued to pursue me and it really felt nice to receive the compliments and attention. He went out of his way to be nice, he helped me move into my new apartment, took me to an out surgery appointment, gave me money for food and eventually I gave in and became sexually involved. I continued to tell him he needed to work things out with his wife but he sad he didn't love her anymore and that the only thing that has made him smile in a very long time besides his sons was me. At work he started paying too much attention to me, constantly around me making the other employees and myself feel weird. I told him he needed to stay away from me at work, he needed to let me do the job I was hired for and to stop helping me with the everything. Eventually, the other employees went to my supervisors supervisor and complained of inappropriate behavior and preferential treatment. Now my problem is: When upper management came to address this complaint, they immediately sent my boss home and interrogated all my co-workers, even calling them in on their days off. Not one time was I spoken to about anything. It was Friday and I was soon to be off work. After completing their investigation (one week later) they told my boss that one of us (my boss or me) was going to be transferred to another store and to talk to me about transferring to a store 7 miles away (mind you I just moved into an apartment after being hired at this job not more than 1/4 mile away from it so I could walk to work due to not having transportation ). They told him to tell me that I was needed at that store and to offer me a .50 raise to transfer. I immediately said "NO", that it wasn't feasible for me to do this I refuse. He relayed this to them and was told they would get back to him. Not once was I spoken to, so I demanded that they explain to me themselves. The following week they came in, called me into the office and told me that I would be starting at the other location the following morning and that if I didn't clock in they would take that as a sign of my resignation. I ask about the raise and he said they didn't have to because it wasn't over 50 miles relocation. Not one thing happened to my boss. He no longer sees me or talks to me after promising me marriage, money and a life together (which is ok). I feel as though I was punished. I now HATE my job, feel uncomfortable with the new all male crew and I feel the company more or less approved of his behavior. My life is now miserable. While his life is just great. He has since hired another female. What can I do about this unfair treatment?