The HR director taking part in sales performance meetings doesn't seem strange to me. Part of HR's job is making sure the staff employed is performing at the top of company expectations for them. What proof do you have that the HR director is involved in an extramarital affair? It sounds like malicious office gossip to me but I'm looking at things from the outside. If the HR director IS having an extramarital affair with another executive at the company, that's not illegal. You are welcome to seek employment elsewhere if you are not happy with your current employer. Repeating office gossip that you likely cannot substantiate with provable facts is a sure way to get yourself fired anyway.What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? New York.
Many people at my company have witnessed what is to be believed as unethical behavior with the head of Human Resource. The first thing is that the HR director takes part in pushing sales. The HR rep often takes part in sales performance meetings as well as discussions with staff about their sales numbers. Due to this double role, sales employees do not feel comfortable going to HR about concerns because their sales would likely come into question.
The second area of concern is the relationship the HR rep has with another executive in the company. These two execs are married. I have heard on several occasions of people unwilling to report disrespect or unquestionable remarks from this exec because of the relationship shared with HR. Furthermore, going to the business owner is not an option since the married couple and owner often share dinners and weekends together.
Are either of these situations inappropriate to the extent of being reportable? If something is indeed legally wrong about this situation, who does it get reported too?