I live in Indiana, and there's this guy at my new job that's very "touchy" "feely" with the other guys. It's usually just hanging on our shoulders, or play tickling our stomachs. I'm not homophobic, and it never really bothered me, just made me laugh a little bit. Well yesterday I was standing by a counter talking to another employee when all of the sudden this guy comes up behind me, grabs my shoulders and rams his knee into my tailbone/buttocks a few times extremely hard. I turned around and threw a punch out of instinct (missed him) and told him off. I had a cyst removed from my tailbone when I was a kid and that area is very tender for me. Now today my tailbone feels bruised, and the more I think about it the more upset I get. I should NOT have to go to work dealing with stuff like that. And though I'm sure it won't happen again after I told him off, I still have to work today with a bruised tailbone that doesn't feel too pleasant.
My question is, is it to late to mention this to my boss today? Am I just painting a target on my head by reporting male on male harassment like this? I really need my job and am very embarrassed about having to talk about this. Any help or recommendations are greatly appreciated.
My question is, is it to late to mention this to my boss today? Am I just painting a target on my head by reporting male on male harassment like this? I really need my job and am very embarrassed about having to talk about this. Any help or recommendations are greatly appreciated.