steiner_krista@
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NEW YORK
I used to work at my previous job and recently left. 5 months ago on a business trip my boss and i had sex. but prior to the business trip he was sending me emails suggestive sexual emails. I tried to ignore them but he would ask "did you get my email?, i didnt get a reply" so i would reply back "what are getting at?" mostly because i was embrassed of what he was trying to ask me.. i used to live with this man and his family when i was 16-18 and worked for him from 19-22. so march 09 business trip, we ended up having sex, mostly because i was worried if i didnt go along i would be fired or treated differently by him in my office. now he never said these things but i was having a rough spot in my marriage and he was aware of this Im currently sepaerated from my husband. upon returning from business trip he continues to ask me to set "play dates" with him,i agreeded to 2-3 of them because he was so pushy and made me feel wrong if i didnt. upon seperateing from my husband i begain to reconnect with a previous ex boyfriend whom i had been out of contact with for a few years, during this time [middle-end of april 09] i was making excuses why i couldnt not see him and would not set a date. he then HACKED into my sidekick cell phone account and read my emails i had exchanged with my ex whom i was reconnecting with and then send me a angry rage filled email. i have emails from when he wanted to set dates and talking about sexual thing. could i file a sexual harassment case against him? It was not like i could go to HR or anything as my company was a small business and my boss was well THE BOSS of everything there is nobody above him. But in the big business world he would have been fired a long time ago due to comments and jokes he makes.
--but i dont know if that would be wise,as my previous ex boyfriend whom i was reconnecting with became my current boyfriend had found a journal of mine where i had written about the suspions i had about my boss having affairs with other ladies in the office and about him having a secret apartment where he takes them and my current BF took this information and used it to attempt to blackmail my previous boss for money in return for not telling his wife of his misdeeds. he is currently arrested and being charged with Grand Larceny 2nd degree.--- would i still be able to pursue a harassment charge or could the fact that my boyfriend got arrested for blackmail would hurt my case?
I used to work at my previous job and recently left. 5 months ago on a business trip my boss and i had sex. but prior to the business trip he was sending me emails suggestive sexual emails. I tried to ignore them but he would ask "did you get my email?, i didnt get a reply" so i would reply back "what are getting at?" mostly because i was embrassed of what he was trying to ask me.. i used to live with this man and his family when i was 16-18 and worked for him from 19-22. so march 09 business trip, we ended up having sex, mostly because i was worried if i didnt go along i would be fired or treated differently by him in my office. now he never said these things but i was having a rough spot in my marriage and he was aware of this Im currently sepaerated from my husband. upon returning from business trip he continues to ask me to set "play dates" with him,i agreeded to 2-3 of them because he was so pushy and made me feel wrong if i didnt. upon seperateing from my husband i begain to reconnect with a previous ex boyfriend whom i had been out of contact with for a few years, during this time [middle-end of april 09] i was making excuses why i couldnt not see him and would not set a date. he then HACKED into my sidekick cell phone account and read my emails i had exchanged with my ex whom i was reconnecting with and then send me a angry rage filled email. i have emails from when he wanted to set dates and talking about sexual thing. could i file a sexual harassment case against him? It was not like i could go to HR or anything as my company was a small business and my boss was well THE BOSS of everything there is nobody above him. But in the big business world he would have been fired a long time ago due to comments and jokes he makes.
--but i dont know if that would be wise,as my previous ex boyfriend whom i was reconnecting with became my current boyfriend had found a journal of mine where i had written about the suspions i had about my boss having affairs with other ladies in the office and about him having a secret apartment where he takes them and my current BF took this information and used it to attempt to blackmail my previous boss for money in return for not telling his wife of his misdeeds. he is currently arrested and being charged with Grand Larceny 2nd degree.--- would i still be able to pursue a harassment charge or could the fact that my boyfriend got arrested for blackmail would hurt my case?