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My supervisor is an odd character and lately he has been trying to get me to socialize with him out of work such as dinner or even going "sparring" with him. He would make comments and jokes about my breast size. My co-worker was talking about wanting breast implants, he said "you don't need breast implants, you can take hers(mine) and came to me with his hands in a grabbing gesture. He asked me if I've received a sweater when I was first hired, I told him no and if he orders me one can he get me a size large. He replies, "you are a large" and laughed. He brushed his hand on my back up and down and asked if I would be happy with a man or whether I wanted a boyfriend. I've had instances where he would grab me and hug me from behind and I didn't know how to respond because I am really shy and quiet. Which is probably the reason why he does what he does. He has also rubbed his butt on my front area purposely. The area was really narrow to walk through and I told him "excuse me" and he pushed his rear to my front area and shook his butt in a rubbing motion side to side. I don't know whether he is the type to get too close but he stands really close to me with his face an inch a way. It's highly weird. This has happened to another co-worker as well. She has experienced inappropriate touching. He has massaged her neck area and asked her personal questions on whether she has dated? How do I avoid creating tension in the work place without being deemed as a trouble maker?
My supervisor is an odd character and lately he has been trying to get me to socialize with him out of work such as dinner or even going "sparring" with him. He would make comments and jokes about my breast size. My co-worker was talking about wanting breast implants, he said "you don't need breast implants, you can take hers(mine) and came to me with his hands in a grabbing gesture. He asked me if I've received a sweater when I was first hired, I told him no and if he orders me one can he get me a size large. He replies, "you are a large" and laughed. He brushed his hand on my back up and down and asked if I would be happy with a man or whether I wanted a boyfriend. I've had instances where he would grab me and hug me from behind and I didn't know how to respond because I am really shy and quiet. Which is probably the reason why he does what he does. He has also rubbed his butt on my front area purposely. The area was really narrow to walk through and I told him "excuse me" and he pushed his rear to my front area and shook his butt in a rubbing motion side to side. I don't know whether he is the type to get too close but he stands really close to me with his face an inch a way. It's highly weird. This has happened to another co-worker as well. She has experienced inappropriate touching. He has massaged her neck area and asked her personal questions on whether she has dated? How do I avoid creating tension in the work place without being deemed as a trouble maker?