14 y/o girl and 19 y/o boy in MD

[kurohasu]

What is the name of your state?MD

I am a 14 y/o in MD, and i'm dating a 19 y/o, who will be 20 in Feb. Neither of us have ANY intensions of having sex with each other. I don't get the chance to see him all that often, and when we do see each other it takes a lot of effort just to get me out of the house. We both want to tell my parents somehow, but we aren't sure whether or not they'll approve of it. I wanted to know if this relationship could get us in trouble, if my parents don't approve, and if so how? also, if they do approve, could we get into trouble? Thanks for the help!

Also, please don't reply to this saying that a normal 19 y/o wouldn't be interested in me. He is not a normal 19 y/o, I am not a normal 14 y/o, and the reasons why he likes me are not normal.

[rmet4nzkx]

Originally Posted by kurohasu

What is the name of your state?MD

I am a 14 y/o in MD, and i'm dating a 19 y/o, who will be 20 in Feb. Neither of us have ANY intensions of having sex with each other. I don't get the chance to see him all that often, and when we do see each other it takes a lot of effort just to get me out of the house. We both want to tell my parents somehow, but we aren't sure whether or not they'll approve of it. I wanted to know if this relationship could get us in trouble, if my parents don't approve, and if so how? also, if they do approve, could we get into trouble? Thanks for the help!

Also, please don't reply to this saying that a normal 19 y/o wouldn't be interested in me. He is not a normal 19 y/o, I am not a normal 14 y/o, and the reasons why he likes me are not normal.

Dear Abnormal,
You don't need to ask us then do you?
You are sneaking around and not telling your parents for two reasons, it's illegal and you both get a rush from the risk. And when the thrill is gone you move to the next level, you get pregnant and he dumps you leaving you with a baby and several years of high school to finish, but you will be too tired to think.
Have fun while it lasts, because it won't so wake up and grow up.

Originally Posted by kurohasu

...Also, please don't reply to this saying that a normal 19 y/o wouldn't be interested in me. He is not a normal 19 y/o, I am not a normal 14 y/o, and the reasons why he likes me are not normal....

Please explain in detail. Thank you.

[kurohasu]

Originally Posted by rmet4nzkx

You are sneaking around and not telling your parents for two reasons, it's illegal and you both get a rush from the risk.

In that, you are wrong. I'm doing this because I fell into a deep depression 3 years ago, and because being around him is the one thing that makes me happy. I hate the risk. It is because i hate the risk that i want my parents to know, because i want them to approve so i can be happy without risk.

Originally Posted by kurohasu

...I'm doing this because I fell into a deep depression 3 years ago, and because being around him is the one thing that makes me happy....

Please explain in detail. Thank you.

[rmet4nzkx]

Originally Posted by seniorjudge

Please explain in detail. Thank you.

OH Judgey, it's the fault of all the green M&M's, you remember what they do

Originally Posted by rmet4nzkx

OH Judgey, it's the fault of all the green M&M's, you remember what they do

Oh...hell!

[rmet4nzkx]

Originally Posted by kurohasu

In that, you are wrong. I'm doing this because I fell into a deep depression 3 years ago, and because being around him is the one thing that makes me happy. I hate the risk. It is because i hate the risk that i want my parents to know, because i want them to approve so i can be happy without risk.

While it is true that a relationship will release "feel good" hormones, neither that nor the antidepressant properties of semen are as good as an appropriately perscribed antidepressant.

I suggest you tell your parents about the relaitonship so you are not sneaking around, and get help for your depression.

[kurohasu]

OK, here's the detail, it can get pretty long, so i'll try to keep it relatively brief. Three years ago, something one of my friends did to me (an impressionable 6th grader at the time) made me depressed and suicidal. My parents don't know this, in fact, they have worsened the situation. I told this boy, Matt, who i knew from church, about my secret back in May, and we became really good friends. I realized a while ago that whenever i talk to him, it makes me happy, and it is possibly the only thing that has that effect on me. He asked me out because he honestly cares about me. If you need to know anything else, please let me know.

[rmet4nzkx]

Originally Posted by seniorjudge

Oh...hell!

OH Judgey,
Let me guess, you had a senior moment the day after Christmas and forgot to stock up on the 1/2 price bags of M&M's which are 1/2 green
To next year! I'll try to remember to remind you

[rmet4nzkx]

Originally Posted by kurohasu

OK, here's the detail, it can get pretty long, so i'll try to keep it relatively brief. Three years ago, something one of my friends did to me (an impressionable 6th grader at the time) made me depressed and suicidal. My parents don't know this, in fact, they have worsened the situation. I told this boy, Matt, who i knew from church, about my secret back in May, and we became really good friends. I realized a while ago that whenever i talk to him, it makes me happy, and it is possibly the only thing that has that effect on me. He asked me out because he honestly cares about me. If you need to know anything else, please let me know.

What happened?

...If you need to know anything else, please let me know....

I need to know how you are going to support the baby he will father. He will be long gone, searching for other children.

[kurohasu]

Originally Posted by rmet4nzkx

What happened?

When? A lot has happened in 3 years...

[kurohasu]

Originally Posted by seniorjudge

I need to know how you are going to support the baby he will father. He will be long gone, searching for other children.

I will repeat my self only once: I am NOT going to have sex with this guy. He doesn't even want to sleep with me, not after what happened to his brother

[rmet4nzkx]

What is your secret, what made you suicidal?
You think of Matt as a mentor?
Do you have a youth pasotor or group leader you can talk to?