I'm 16 now I will be 17 in May
That makes you a minor. This means that you are a dependent juvenile for nearly two more years and have to live where your parents permit you to live.
I was wondering if I could move out when I turn 17 I can live with my boyfriend
Only if mom and dad unwisely let you. And, depending on the state you are in, it could be a crime.
but I don't wan to be called a runaway and I don't mind talking to cops I just don't want to live with my mom and her husband anymore
If they call and report you as a runaway, yeah, you will be a runaway, you will be talking to the cops, and you can be dragged home kicking and screaming.
no abuse or anything just getting yelled at all the time for stupid reasons
Wait ... are you one of my four kids!? Hmmm ... this sounds like almost every teenager in the history of mankind?!
but will someone please explane to me how this all works like can I leave with out telling my mom where I am going and not be forced to go back home or what thank you so much in advance of your help
Certainly! When you turn 18 you can walk out the door with whatever your parents allow you to take with you.