What is the name of your state? Michigan
Hello all
I'm hoping to be able to get some constructive leads as to where my Husband and I can go for help on this issue. One month ago, my Daughters boyfriend was kicked out of his home at midnight on a Sunday by his Mother (and I do use that term lightly) because he had written something in his MySpace blog concerning her relationship with a man (one of MANY she's had in the past 2 years). He was not totally disrespectful, as I read the blog and know this to be true. He was just very truthful in his feelings about her and this particular relationship. The young man, who is 17, soon to be 18 in October, had no place to go, no Father, (he's an alcoholic) so we took him in. I suppose I'm trying to find out exactly what his legal rights are in reference to this woman, as she is constantly calling and asking to speak with him, sending him messages, mails, etc. and the young man has no desire to speak to her. She is constantly running hot and cold. One minute he's "My Dear Son", the next it's "Listen you S.O.B", and worse. I have gotten his address changed at the post office, but they tell me that she has the right to rescind this address change. I've tried to get his address changed at the High School, and they tell me that SHE has to ok this. I spoke with the liaison Officer at the School, and he tells me that he is in what is referred to as "legal age limbo", meaning, now that she has kicked him out without the Courts involvement, he no longer has to listen to her, do what she says, but she is still responsible for him legally. He could move to California if he so chooses. Now she is trying to force him into attending a behavioral weekend camp for troubled teens, which he is absolutely refusing to go to. Also, we do not want him to go, as this is just another way of her forcing something down his throat that, in our opinion, he does not need to attend.
Has SHE broken the Law, being the sole custodial Parent, by forcing him to leave his home, which I was told he did not have to do, but did so because he was scared she would call the police on him again for nothing? I have many more questions, and hope I will get a response to this particular thread, but I am so jumbled up with all the research I've been trying to do in reference to this, that I need a new light shed on the subject.
Any response would be greatly appreciated, as it will undoubtedly give me new venues to pursue.
Thanking All In Advance,
mrs.biggo
Michigan
Hello all
I'm hoping to be able to get some constructive leads as to where my Husband and I can go for help on this issue. One month ago, my Daughters boyfriend was kicked out of his home at midnight on a Sunday by his Mother (and I do use that term lightly) because he had written something in his MySpace blog concerning her relationship with a man (one of MANY she's had in the past 2 years). He was not totally disrespectful, as I read the blog and know this to be true. He was just very truthful in his feelings about her and this particular relationship. The young man, who is 17, soon to be 18 in October, had no place to go, no Father, (he's an alcoholic) so we took him in. I suppose I'm trying to find out exactly what his legal rights are in reference to this woman, as she is constantly calling and asking to speak with him, sending him messages, mails, etc. and the young man has no desire to speak to her. She is constantly running hot and cold. One minute he's "My Dear Son", the next it's "Listen you S.O.B", and worse. I have gotten his address changed at the post office, but they tell me that she has the right to rescind this address change. I've tried to get his address changed at the High School, and they tell me that SHE has to ok this. I spoke with the liaison Officer at the School, and he tells me that he is in what is referred to as "legal age limbo", meaning, now that she has kicked him out without the Courts involvement, he no longer has to listen to her, do what she says, but she is still responsible for him legally. He could move to California if he so chooses. Now she is trying to force him into attending a behavioral weekend camp for troubled teens, which he is absolutely refusing to go to. Also, we do not want him to go, as this is just another way of her forcing something down his throat that, in our opinion, he does not need to attend.
Has SHE broken the Law, being the sole custodial Parent, by forcing him to leave his home, which I was told he did not have to do, but did so because he was scared she would call the police on him again for nothing? I have many more questions, and hope I will get a response to this particular thread, but I am so jumbled up with all the research I've been trying to do in reference to this, that I need a new light shed on the subject.
Any response would be greatly appreciated, as it will undoubtedly give me new venues to pursue.
Thanking All In Advance,
mrs.biggo
Michigan
