I live in Oregon and I am 17. I have been having lots and lots of family problems that people dont know about. In short I take a lot of verbal abuse from my mom who messed up her life and wants to live through me, and my dad supports her fully. I have been seeing a shrink to try and workout "MY" problems, but my parents dont seem to be required to attend. I get lots of verbal/emotional abuse from my mom and dad. Its continual, everyday.
I am a junior in highscool and by the end of this year I will have about 1/2 a credit maybe 1 to get. I get continual threats about being kept full 4 years of Highschool, because thats what they want, instead of graduating early or going to alternative school to pickup a HS to get my diploma a year early. but noooo. They are also very picky and critical on who I am with.
I had tried to calmly talk to my parents about whats going on and all my nights crying from what they say, I ended up going to the doctor, put on meds and weekly on tues at 2:30 I sit and talk out "MY" problems.
So now to the problem that worries me most...my boyfriend. We have been together almost 1 year, and he just turned 21, within days ago. I have spent almost everyday with him, and I will agree I have drifted away from my parents some. Schoool was really an issue for me, I just wanted to end Highschool and focus on working part-time and attending community college till I got some money saved and things situated. I had mentioned, wanting to get emancipated and moving out to her, and she blew up. I am now given daily required chores from my mom. Now I feel like I am her maid :[ it feels like child abuse. My mom is threating me with getting him in trouble for us being "together" if I dont follow every rule she sets in stone now. Or if I even try to get emancipated.
I won't keep blabbering about my problems. I need to know if there is some thing I can do for emancipation and not getting him in trouble.
I looked at the process for it in Oregon, from what it shows I need to show I am able to take care of myself financially for the most part.
Im not sure at what all they will look at. For a 17 yr old I feel I am a bit ahead of my peers.
- 1 solid year work history
- I have 3.0 GPA at school
- I am almost a full year early on graduating
- I work partime 15 hrs a week, I asked for more shifts and was told I could get them if I wanted. Which I would If I could get out.
- I have my own car, 99' my car insurance is a bit high though
*** I also have text messages from my dad, and a voicemail from him threating me and my boyfriend saved *** wonder if those can sway things much?
I turn 18 in 7 months but I dont think I can last to be honest?? any tips??
I am a junior in highscool and by the end of this year I will have about 1/2 a credit maybe 1 to get. I get continual threats about being kept full 4 years of Highschool, because thats what they want, instead of graduating early or going to alternative school to pickup a HS to get my diploma a year early. but noooo. They are also very picky and critical on who I am with.
I had tried to calmly talk to my parents about whats going on and all my nights crying from what they say, I ended up going to the doctor, put on meds and weekly on tues at 2:30 I sit and talk out "MY" problems.
So now to the problem that worries me most...my boyfriend. We have been together almost 1 year, and he just turned 21, within days ago. I have spent almost everyday with him, and I will agree I have drifted away from my parents some. Schoool was really an issue for me, I just wanted to end Highschool and focus on working part-time and attending community college till I got some money saved and things situated. I had mentioned, wanting to get emancipated and moving out to her, and she blew up. I am now given daily required chores from my mom. Now I feel like I am her maid :[ it feels like child abuse. My mom is threating me with getting him in trouble for us being "together" if I dont follow every rule she sets in stone now. Or if I even try to get emancipated.
I won't keep blabbering about my problems. I need to know if there is some thing I can do for emancipation and not getting him in trouble.
I looked at the process for it in Oregon, from what it shows I need to show I am able to take care of myself financially for the most part.
Im not sure at what all they will look at. For a 17 yr old I feel I am a bit ahead of my peers.
- 1 solid year work history
- I have 3.0 GPA at school
- I am almost a full year early on graduating
- I work partime 15 hrs a week, I asked for more shifts and was told I could get them if I wanted. Which I would If I could get out.
- I have my own car, 99' my car insurance is a bit high though
*** I also have text messages from my dad, and a voicemail from him threating me and my boyfriend saved *** wonder if those can sway things much?
I turn 18 in 7 months but I dont think I can last to be honest?? any tips??