Can't believe these comments!!!
This may not seem like a big deal to people but we live in a small town and the stigma of being labeled a "lesbian" will follow her.
If my daughter were a lesbian, I would actually be ok with it, wouldn't like it, but would deal. I've dealt with worse. I am POSITIVE that she is not, in fact she has always been on the boy crazy side. She has even asked boys to go with her before this came about. This same daughter is already dealing with some health issues and the last thing she needs is something else to worry about. My daughter has Obsessive Compulsive Disorder - she is actually afraid to spend the night anywhere but home. Her friends come over, but I am a stay at home and am always here. Her door is usually open, but if it is shut, I can open it at anytime... which I do, and what I normally find is them playing video games... her favorite past time is running outside to see the neighborhood boys... one of which she has had a crush on since he moved in last year.
I wasn't making a comment to find out IF she were a lesbian - I truly wanted to know if I could do anything public to help my daughter recover her reputation. She already has trouble getting boyfriends and with this she might as well forget it. The girl who did this tells blatant lies - more like stories - so bad in fact when this started I dismissed it because I didn't think anyone would believe it... but, after the other girl makes jokes of it, writes in bathroom walls, lies about seeing her out with other girls - which I know doesn't happen - because my daughter doesn't go anywhere without either me or my husband!
I was truly seeking help.... this was my first time to come to this site... and instead I am defending my daughter against the replies! My daughter struggles thru life and it breaks my heart to see her have such a tough time. People don't appreciate having healthy children, unless they have one that isn't. Thanks anyway...