i am in the state of tenn and i have adopted my 17 year old brother. he has behavioral issues and has been kicked out of schools and programs all over florida before he came to live with me, my husband and two very young toddlers. I was told beforehand that he was having some issues involving anger and plain out not really caring about anything. i have tried to be as understanding as possible with still keeping my ground rules. he doesnt care about trying for his ged or making something out of himself. please tell me what i can do before this really gets out of hand and he loses control. i am also worried that he is back into the whole drug and alcohol circle again. i am scared to let this keep going on**************.please, please help me.