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MistressKelli

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What is the name of your state? Mississippi.

I'm 15 and as of last night im engaged. My fiance is 19 and leaving for the army soon. We havent done anything to red flag our relationship. My question is , is it possible to be emancipated for marriage at 16? Please dont think us another puppy love dreaming the impossible dream kind of couple. We're both mature enough to handle,accept, and respect our responsibillities. We're both furthering our education as of now. (He's just doing it the hard way) Please take me seriously All comments and advice are welcomed with open arms . Thank You.

"An Open Mind Is Key To A Happy Life"

Kelli. :eek: :confused:
 


mb94

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Sure you can get married. As long as your parents sign the consent needed to get the license in your state! If your parents aren't going to do that then it looks like your going to have to wait. Also, it looks like your state asks for parental consent for anyone getting married who is younger than 21 so his parents would need to sign off on it too.

The first year of marriage is that hardest, you don't need to add to that stress by making your first year a long distance relationship while also trying to finish school, get through your teen years, and pray that he doesn't have to go to Iraq. You lose nothing by waiting and getting married when you are both in a more stable place, in fact you make it more likely that your marriage will go the distance.
 

Neal1421

Senior Member
MistressKelli said:
What is the name of your state? Mississippi.

I'm 15 and as of last night im engaged. My fiance is 19 and leaving for the army soon. We havent done anything to red flag our relationship. My question is , is it possible to be emancipated for marriage at 16? Please dont think us another puppy love dreaming the impossible dream kind of couple. We're both mature enough to handle,accept, and respect our responsibillities. We're both furthering our education as of now. (He's just doing it the hard way) Please take me seriously All comments and advice are welcomed with open arms . Thank You.

"An Open Mind Is Key To A Happy Life"

Kelli. :eek: :confused:
Since you are asking if you can be emancipated, I am going to assume that your parents are not going to agree to the marriage.

You can't get emancipated unles you can prove that you can support yourself 100%, which I am sure you cannot.

As for the marriage, its not going to happen unless both yours and your fiance's parents agree to it.

MISSISSIPPI CODE OF 1972
As Amended

SEC. 93-1-5. Conditions precedent to issuance of license; penalty for noncompliance.

It shall be unlawful for the circuit court clerk to issue a marriage license until the following conditions precedent have been complied with:


(a) Parties desiring a marriage license shall make application therefor in writing to the clerk of the circuit court of any county in the state of Mississippi; provided, however, that if the female applicant shall be under the age of twenty-one (21) years and shall be a resident of the state of Mississippi, said application shall be made to the circuit court clerk of the county of residence of such female applicant. Said application shall be forthwith filed with the circuit court clerk and shall include the names, ages and addresses of the parties applying; the names and addresses of the parents of the parties applying, and if no parents, then names and addresses of the guardian or next of kin; the signatures of witnesses; and any other data which may be required by law or the Mississippi State Board of Health. The application shall be sworn to by both applicants.


(b) The application shall remain on file, open to the public, in the office of the circuit court clerk for a period of three (3) days before the clerk is authorized to issue the marriage license. Provided, however, that if satisfactory proof is furnished to the judge of any circuit, chancery or county court that sufficient reasons exist, then the judge of any such court in the judicial district where either of such parties resides if they be over the age of twenty-one (21) years, or where the female resides if she be under the age of twenty-one (21), may waive the three-day waiting period and by written instrument authorize the clerk of the court to issue the marriage license to the parties if they are otherwise qualified by law. Authorization shall be a part of the confidential files of the clerk of the court, subject to inspection only by written permission of the judge. If either of the applying parties appears from the evidence to be under twenty-one (21) years of age, the circuit court clerk, immediately upon filing the application, shall cause notice of the filing of said application to be sent by prepaid certified mail to the father, mother, guardian or next of kin of both applying parties at the address named in said application.


(c) An affidavit showing the age of both applying parties shall be made by either the father, mother, guardian or next of kin of each of the contracting parties and filed with the clerk of the circuit court along with the application; or in lieu thereof, said both applying parties shall appear in person before the circuit court clerk and make and subscribe an oath in person, which said affidavit shall be attached to and noted on the application for the marriage license. In addition to either of the previous conditions stated, further proof of age shall be presented to the circuit court clerk in the form of either a birth certificate, baptismal record, armed service discharge, armed service identification card, life insurance policy, insurance certificate, school record, driver's license, or other official document evidencing age. Said document substantiating age and date of birth shall be examined by the circuit court clerk before whom application is made, and the circuit court clerk shall retain in his file with the application such document or a certified or photostatic copy thereof.


(d) The clerk shall not issue a marriage license under the provisions of this section unless the male applicant is at least seventeen (17) years of age, and the female is at least fifteen (15) years of age; provided, however, that if satisfactory proof is furnished to the judge of any circuit, chancery or county court that sufficient reasons exist and that said parties desire to be married to each other and that the parents or other person in loco parentis of the person or persons so under age consent thereto, then the judge of any such court in the county where either of such parties resides may waive the minimum age requirement and by written instrument authorize the clerk of the court to issue the marriage license to the parties if they are otherwise qualified by law. Authorization shall be a part of the confidential files of the clerk of the court, subject to inspection only by written permission of the judge.

(e) A medical certificate dated within thirty (30) days prior to the application shall be presented to the circuit court clerk showing that the applicant is free from syphilis, as nearly as can be determined by a blood test performed in a laboratory approved by the state board of health. The medical certificate may be obtained through the local health department by the applicant or applicants, or it may be obtained through any private laboratory approved by the state board of health. Said medical certificate shall be examined by the circuit court clerk and filed in a permanent file kept by the clerk for this purpose.


(f) In no event shall a license be issued by the circuit court clerk when it appears to the circuit court clerk that the applicants are, or either of them is, drunk, insane or an imbecile.


Any circuit clerk shall be liable under his official bond because of noncompliance with the provisions of this section.


Any circuit court clerk who issues a marriage license without complying with the provisions of this section shall be guilty of a misdemeanor, and upon conviction shall be punished by a fine of not less than fifty dollars ($50.00) and not more than five hundred dollars ($500.00).


SOURCES: Codes, 1930, Sec. 2363; 1942, Sec. 461; Laws, 1930, ch. 237; 1957, Ex. ch. 17, Sec. 1, eff July 1, 1958; 1983, ch. 522, Sec. 48, eff from and after July 1, 1983.
 

MistressKelli

Junior Member
Yeah Well

I havent told my dad yet moms not really in the pic but my great grandmother knows and is all for it but i suppose i'll have to wait.. but i dont see me waiting til im 21 so 18 in another state would work right? i mean its not like we're guna live here anyways...
 

MistressKelli

Junior Member
Not Really

mb94 said:
Sure you can get married. As long as your parents sign the consent needed to get the license in your state! If your parents aren't going to do that then it looks like your going to have to wait. Also, it looks like your state asks for parental consent for anyone getting married who is younger than 21 so his parents would need to sign off on it too.

The first year of marriage is that hardest, you don't need to add to that stress by making your first year a long distance relationship while also trying to finish school, get through your teen years, and pray that he doesn't have to go to Iraq. You lose nothing by waiting and getting married when you are both in a more stable place, in fact you make it more likely that your marriage will go the distance.


As of right now neither of us are in "stable" places but im not risking living with my mom to get out of here... so i guess i'll stay he'll leave and i will PRAY and pray and pray that he doesnt go to Iraq.:confused:
Oh and no this isnt another teenage attempt to get away from home.
 
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shell007

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MistressKelli said:
I havent told my dad yet moms not really in the pic but my great grandmother knows and is all for it but i suppose i'll have to wait.. but i dont see me waiting til im 21 so 18 in another state would work right? i mean its not like we're guna live here anyways...
Stay in school, and make sure you go to English class (learn to spell and use punctuation). If you want to get dressed up and attend a fancy event...maybe BF can take you to your prom (if you even old enough to do that).

Come on :rolleyes: ...You're 15-years-old. You have your whole life ahead of you. Try and think smart here.

Think about this for a minute...what do you think BF is going to do while he is in the army, stationed (who know's where), and goes out with the MEN on weekend leave???? Think...Women, Women, Women !!!!!!
 

stealth2

Under the Radar Member
MistressKelli said:
I havent told my dad yet moms not really in the pic but my great grandmother knows and is all for it but i suppose i'll have to wait.. but i dont see me waiting til im 21 so 18 in another state would work right? i mean its not like we're guna live here anyways...
Unless your great-grandmother is your legal guardian, what she thinks is moot.

Once you're 18, you can move anywhere you like and establish residency - then you're governed by the other state's laws.
 

zippysgoddess

Senior Member
The truth here, regardless of your claims, is that you are 15, you are NOT old enough or mature enough to know what you want for your future yet. You have a lot of learning and growing yet to do.

AUGH! This is just making me sit here and remember old boyfriends and what I thought was love back then... come on my friends, think about it, doesn't it make you cringe to just imagine what life would have been like if you had married one of those weirdos?
 
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shell007

Guest
zippysgoddess said:
The truth here, regardless of your claims, is that you are 15, you are NOT old enough or mature enough to know what you want for your future yet. You have a lot of learning and growing yet to do.

AUGH! This is just making me sit here and remember old boyfriends and what I thought was love back then... come on my friends, think about it, doesn't it make you cringe to just imagine what life would have been like if you had married one of those weirdos?
Zippygoddess: We have never really crossed paths here on this forum, but I just sit here, read this stuff, and shake my head. This girl really thinks she is getting married at 15-years-old ???:eek: :eek: :eek:

I do however admit that I married my high-school sweet-heart. However, not until we were 25-years-old !!! Proudly been together for 22 years, married for 13.

Hopefully this OP will realize that "time is the true test". WAIT!!!! What is meant to be...will be!!!

She really should be more worried about what she is going to wear to her prom in a couple of months.
 

cbg

I'm a Northern Girl
Heck, by the time I was 16 I couldn't stand the sight of the guy I was with at 15.
 
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